In 1982, I was diagnosed with UC (Ulcerative Colitis). Flare-ups and downs continued for the next 10 years, and things then started to get progressively worse. From 1996 to 2006, I can honestly say my life became a nightmare. Between my sense of urgency regarding BMs and the countless number of embarrassing and near-harrowing situations I would find myself in, you would think I would have welcomed any type of surgery... But no, not me. I will never have surgery, was my thought (having sunk into a deep depression that whole time and not even knowing it). It was only after having lost everything that I ever cared about in my life - family, wife, money, job, career - and at what I thought was the end of my rope, did I entertain the J-pouch surgery. (My journey mirrors the bottoming out an alcoholic experiences before they begin their rebirth.) Well, the J-pouch proved to be a nightmare too, and then 3 months later, permanent ileostomy... and that now has become my second birthday - July 19, 2006. I have been reborn from the ashes of this disease, truly. Wow, am I ever appreciative and happy. I never thought it could be so, and I currently can't scream it loud enough for all the world to hear and see. This is a happy ending for me. Know that what I thought would be the end of my life - getting an ostomy - has proven to be the complete opposite. I have gotten my old life back (healthwise), and I think I got an extra three lives thrown in. I have so much life now I don't know what to do with it all. LOL Michael
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