IF YOU RIDE THE FENCE TOO LONG, you get a sore butt (Barbie or otherwise). Times come when you’ve got no choice but to pick a side or make a decision. Neutral only works in certain limited circumstances. If you’re too dogmatic, too stuck in one place, things pass you by. So you’ve got to consider all angles and all arguments. You’ve got to take into account every perspective before reaching a conclusion about things, always being on the look out for the hidden trap or the contradictory position. “Minds are like parachutes,” said whiskey distiller Thomas Dewar. “They only function when open.” On the other hand, said Beat poet Lawrence Ferlinghetti, “if you’re too open-minded, your brains will fall out.” Most of us need not worry about losing our minds over decision-making. It may give us a headache, or heartburn (whatever that is), or red splotches on our cheeks, but eventually we swallow hard, bite our lip, and make the call. It’s best not to put off some things, however. You don’t want to decide after you’re in the water over your head that you should have taken swimming lessons; you don’t want to put off until you’re in the voting booth the decision on which candidate you favor; you generally ought not make a major purchase sight unseen (although I did this when buying my present home, but I did see photos and had a good realtor rep on site). Sometimes, over time, positions can harden, of course. I am not open to discussion about spiders, for instance.
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We sat down with two influential people in the ostomy community, to find out how they cope during challenging times.
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Ostomy surgery is stressful both for the patient and the caregiver, and creates a major life change for both people in a relationship.
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Learn how to care for your loved one, while still taking care of yourself.