Cancer has been a very unfriendly thing in my life lately, and it's come back a couple of times. On March 7, I had surgery because cancer had gone to my vagina and a tumor attached to my pelvic wall. I had surgery to remove 2 to 2 1/2 inches of my vagina, remove the tumors, and get cancer off the wall of my pelvic area. And as we all know, just because we have one more thing done doesn't mean that the cancer word isn't done with us. So, I went into surgery without a prolapsed growth on my stoma, but I had a prolapsed growth on my stoma when I got out of surgery. Like all good patients, we go to follow-up visits. I went to my follow-up visit, and my surgeon looked at that prolapsed growth and numbed me with numbing stuff. He proceeded to cut the growth out of my stoma while I was in his office and gave me stitches. He also sent the growth for biopsy, and of course, that word beginning with C, cancer, came up again. My growth was cancerous. I thank God it was in my stoma area and not in my vagina area. I don't know how much more I can take of the doctors taking cancer out of me. I like to think I'm a strong woman, but you know what? I'm not. I've been out of the hospital not even 24 hours, and now I have vaginal bleeding. You know, I don't have hardly any female parts left. I have part of my vagina, and I don't know where the blood is coming from. So, I'm just venting out here. I don't want to be an emotional wreck, but I am. There's too much shit to live for. I can't take it anymore. I'll take a deep breath, wash my face, and take a nap. I cherish everyone I'm hearing from, and I hope that you're doing better than I am. Hugs, you are my friend.
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