I don't want to make waves...for that is not my intention. I truly believe you can deliver a message, convey a thought in a manner that is not vulgar and disrespectful. However, I am saddened by the lack of respect some ostomates have for the thoughts and beliefs of others. Whatever happened to the old adage "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"? People openly put their thoughts, beliefs, and feelings out there, and others respond with theirs. Isn't that the whole point of a forum? There are no right or wrong answers, yet some feel so threatened by others' views that they have to openly and privately be rude, obnoxious, and just plain distasteful! So now we are losing a very dear member for a while due to these things! Well, excuse me for saying that is just bull****, and I am very disappointed in your mean-spiritedness, closed-mindedness, and just lack of etiquette! Kenny, I and I know a lot of others on this site will miss you. Come back soon and keep in touch!
saddened and frustrated,
J.J
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