Intimacy Challenges with an Ostomy

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Beachboy
Jul 15, 2024 2:54 pm
Reply to cjotl2019

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't like my wayward stoma. No one else seems to mind. So, I just let it go and not stress about it.

givvmistamps
Jul 17, 2024 4:53 pm

My big question is, how to keep the bag from flopping around during the ride? Tie it down with a scarf or something?

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warrior
Jul 17, 2024 6:29 pm
Reply to givvmistamps

Hi, if you have read the previous messages above, you will see what people suggest.

Some good advice.

Tube tops, stealth belts. Crazy glue... just kidding. 😁

Beachboy
Jul 17, 2024 6:38 pm
Reply to warrior

Crazy glue... that's... um... crazy.

givvmistamps
Jul 17, 2024 10:19 pm
Reply to warrior

Thank you. I thought I had read all the comments, but it turned out there were more after an ad that I didn't scroll far enough past.

 

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warrior
Jul 18, 2024 2:41 am
Reply to givvmistamps

No worries. I have always said this web design is a bit confusing. You learn more as you read and respond. It's a good bunch of people. Welcome.

warrior
Jul 18, 2024 2:43 am
Reply to Beachboy

Says the man, with a crazy feline. You know crazy, don't you?

anneboyles12
Jul 18, 2024 1:19 pm
Reply to givvmistamps

Yes, I use a prettier hernia belt.

Beachboy
Jul 18, 2024 4:00 pm
Reply to warrior

Too true... too true.

My cat says I'm too lazy to be crazy.

Disagreeing, I'd say her outlook is too hazy.

Into the wall she darts,

To avoid eye-watering stoma farts.

warrior
Jul 18, 2024 4:05 pm
Reply to Beachboy

Your cat speaks? Therefore, you are the cat whisperer. 😆

Hisbiscus
Jul 25, 2024 4:23 am

Put on a maternity band over your bag and have at it! Ostomy Secrets sells some sexy wraps made of lace. Don't worry about it; if it doesn't bother him, then just go with it like it's not even there. Focus on the sex, not the ostomy.

Mine has made noise and even pooped, but I have my wrap on. Just tune it out.