Hi Chris, as CC Diaries has suggested, someone from the UK could possibly throw some light onto your plight and she is as usual, right on the button but… most people who have had any medical treatment on the NHS and in particular with ‘in Hospital' treatment will have dramatically different answers to any question put forward. First of all, let's get something straightened out, our NHS is desperately short of funding but I personally still think it is by far the best system out there,.. unfortunately it is widely accepted that we have various elements in the government who would sell to private enterprise if given half a chance and have indeed snuck a few private companies in, in the past. So… having spent quite a decent time over the past years in the hands of our wonderful NHS heroes, I can proudly stand up and say that without any doubt, ‘I' would have died on a number of occasions over the past 17 years had it not been for the treatment and care of these remarkable people. My wife owes the same debt of gratitude to the same people who have literally gifted her with at least 25 years we would never have had the opportunity of sharing.
The reason I've mentioned the above Chris, is just to put a point across, that in that time and those circumstances, I have gradually, personally accepted information from these dedicated people which I believe nowadays to be as near to the truth as is professionally possible. I am 14 months into my colostomy journey and in my preliminary meetings with my surgeon his offer was simple,.. my cancer had to be removed along with part of my colon, this was possible and came with two choices. He proceeded to say that he would remove the offending portion and perform an ileostomy which he would follow up in due course with an operation to reverse back to the ‘normal' condition of a backward-facing bum. I asked about the second option and was told I could however have a non-reversible permanent colostomy. In the following discussions he gave me an estimate of around 2 years before any reversal could be performed and had more than one solid reason for this including the serious backlog caused by the devastation of the early Covid epidemic. He then added that at the end of the 2 years he had no way of knowing how much longer that list would have grown and could very easily be 3 or more years. Well… I was 81 years then and I thought, aahh!! bollocks, and decided on the permanent option. Absolutely no regrets so far even with the odd mishaps on the way!
The thing is Chris, I would take what you've been told as the best information he can professionally offer at this time and.. take it easy.. because he may have to take many other decisions based on circumstances he can't discuss, unfortunately, things like the levels of care and available beds etc differ drastically from area to area in the UK so my story will not be just like any other but I hope it helps.
Best wishes Chris,
Brian