I have a new end ileostomy, about 3 months (Crohn's). I've never had intact skin because no one taught me anything in the hospital, and my home nurse only took care of my PICC for parenteral nutrition. I've been able to talk with WOC for the past 6 weeks or so, and it's helped, but I feel like they are limited in their tricks (they don't seem to know of any patients with a stealth belt).
So now my skin is angrier than a talk radio host, and I'm developing leaks because nothing sticks to my not-skin.
I use a flip convex wafer (1pc Coloplast) because I have a little convex hill since surgery, and a barrier ring, which basically gets eaten through in 48 hours (I cannot go 49 hours without changing, no way no how). I end up crusting with stoma powder and no sting spray film, which increases my time bomb from 2 hours to like 20. Which still means leaving the house is taking my dignity in my hands.
This week has been a kind of pain that one cannot describe adequately to anyone who hasn't already died from pain. I've heard a nice range of shocked oaths from doctors who've seen what I've been through. Getting hit by a hot cast iron pan covered in salt and lemon juice would be a 6 on my pain scale where this is a 10.
Any thoughts on calming this hellfire enough that I can get back to 2 days between changes? Because I'm just tearing away more of my body with every appliance change, and quite frankly will run out of pouches soon because the medical system in this backwoods of a country is privatized and the insurance company rations the things like chocolate in East Berlin.