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Well, I felt better with both actually. I could finally poop! We all get gas and our bags will blow up like a balloon, especially when asleep for some reason. You just carefully open it and push on the bag a bit to let the air out and close it back up. The only thing that was giving me trouble is I was producing hardened mucous balls because I still had my colon and the colon was not working. I was still getting the rectum spasms, but I could poop and I no longer felt like I had a 1000-pound weight bearing down on me. So... the test result for me was to go for the end ileostomy.
With the end ileostomy, I feel 100 percent better. My whole colon is removed and the rectum. Barbie butt, they call it. Sewn up. The only downfall is no reversal possible with the end ileostomy. In my case, I had no choice and my quality of life is so much better. Sometimes it gets to me having to wear it, but then I make myself remember what I went through before and I settle down.
Now there are female problems like prolapse that can cause slow transit as well. You might ask for a referral to rule out that first because if that is the cause, they can fix the prolapse. Sometimes a prolapse can even be in the pouch of Douglas in our female organs. Rectal prolapse, etc. Then there is a special CT or MRI, I can't remember which one, and they fill you up with this stuff and watch as you're emptying out. This was checking for prolapse.
Have you had all the testing like CT scans, Crohn's, all that? They had me do a test where I had to eat radioactive scrambled eggs and they scanned every hour or so to watch how I was digesting. Then another test with these pills that looked like bullets I had to swallow and then you go back in to see if any are still there. I could not finish that test though because you can't take laxatives for a few days and I wound up curled in a ball in pain on my bathroom floor from being backed up. Those tests were after I got to the colorectal surgeon and they did some tests to check my rectum also.
So as you can see, there are a lot of tests to rule out other causes before you make that move to the ileostomy. So yes, get to colorectal but also see a urogynecologist. The urogyn specializes in female prolapse. Mine is who first brought up the bag and referred me to the colorectal surgeon. At that point, after 4 years of suffering, I was begging for a bag anyhow.
About the third year into my severe constipation, a hospital determined I had ileus by CT scan and my gastro who works at that hospital saw that and she was a witch. She had my colorectal surgeon appointment I set canceled and sent me to a psychologist. Told me she wasn't doing any more tests on me even though I had ileus and could not eat while losing massive amounts of weight. I called her bluff and went to the psychologist who, when I came in and sat down, asked me why did she send you here? I'm looking in your chart and you have an ileus. I said yes, I know. She said to me, they are not doing you right here and we are lucky to have so many good hospitals here in Cleveland. She said please go somewhere else who will help you. So off to Cleveland Clinic and that is where all my testing came up. They immediately started taking care of me.
I feel your pain.
Came back to add that the temp was easy. The end ileostomy, of course, I had a bit of pain in my Barbie butt for a while but nothing compared to those horrible rectum spasms I was getting before my surgeries and bonus, no more colonoscopies to get ever again with the end.