Had ileostomy surgery in July, though I had fatigue before surgery, I always thought it was just nutrition and illness related. I'm doing much better nutrition-wise, but my fatigue is far worse. I'm severely exhausted, I am dizzy, I black out and have fainting spells from pressure changes such as entering another room or standing too fast. I often wake in the middle of the night with my heart racing, dizzy and shaky with low blood sugar. I cannot concentrate on anything and my vision is blurry and my head hurts. My fatigue controls my life. I work out every day, I eat very healthy, though my diet is limited, and I make sure to, of course, stay hydrated with electrolytes, though we know what a struggle this is. Any suggestions? Has anyone experienced such severe symptoms after surgery?
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Hi Crossley. Ya know, I think it’s all about feelings. I don’t mean the pain feelings which could control everything. I mean the feelings inside our heads, our hearts and even our souls. I mean the feelings of who we are now compared to who we were; how we accept our situation or maybe we don’t. My wife asked how I felt and I said, “like crap”. She asked what hurt and I answered, “Nothing hurts, well, everything hurts, I don’t know, It all sucks.” That was a long time ago. You question if your feelings are normal. How normal is it to relocate your butt hole to your belly where it’s usually in the way of your belt and, you know. But that’s where we are and for lots of us we are so much better off than we were before, physically. Emotionally, psychologically, well, that might be a different story. I believe talk therapy is wonderful if we could find a real empathic or sympathetic listener. So guess what! I found MAO and began “talking” with a keyboard with some of the wisest, kindest most sympathetic and compassionate folks on the planet. Regardless of where we’ve been, lots of folks here have been there and worse places and found their way back healthier and happier. We really do help each other.
Keep “talking”,
Mike
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