Seeking Stories from Stoma Patients Unrelated to Common Conditions

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gutenberg
Feb 01, 2010 2:41 am
I do hope some will take my request seriously. What I am looking for are ostimates who now sport a stoma who have never had any problems like U/C , IBS and had surgery for some other malady and due to that surgery landed up with with a stoma. My own example, I had surgery for an abdominal aorta aneurysm, about five weeks later I got really sick and was shipped post haste to the city where I had two more surgeries and ten days later woke up with my little strawberry all wrapped up in a pouch. As you might imagine I was extremely pissed at the first surgeon for screwing up and it took a long time to get over that, but you can only hate for so long and finally, I accepted my fate.

Were it not for this forum I probably would have gone over the edge, (and we're not too sure of that). So if anybody having similar experiences, please share. Thanks in advance Ed
Morpheus
Feb 01, 2010 5:44 am
I would really like a Hollister New Image flexible base with a Coloplast one click bag interface and a Hollister bag.



The base adheres to the skin and flexes well, the one click interface is contoured to prevent caking and allows the bag to swivel. While the Hollister bags are easily manipulated to clean the spout.



Here's hoping !
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lottagelady
Feb 01, 2010 7:56 am
Thats me Ed!



No bowel problem, just a very tiny hole that needed sewing up, got the temporary stoma to allow wound to heal 6 yrs ago now .... I now have a bowel problem I suspect because of my hernia

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weewee
Feb 01, 2010 10:43 am
i dont have ibs or any other cancer thingy that got my stoma i was working a good job and living good as can be with no worries then as the new year broke in 2009 i got sick and then 8 days into the new year i was in the hospital for a week i was told to wait and to see if the blockage would go away it didnt and i hadnt eatin for a week by now then came the 12 of jan surgrey came and i woke up with the berry and pouch plus all the tubes stuck in every other hole possible asking what the hell happened my colon was in a big knot was told that i lost 18 inches of colon and i have a mega colon plus hirshsprung i out grow a 4 inch bag so second surgery came 3 months later now i still have a big butt in the front of me and need to be repaired and still no answer from the quacks on what to do good thing is that i go to court for ssdi hopin that the year i have waited pays off so i can get on with fishing and have some money to pay for the trips to the river other than that just sit and play games on line and look for another bagger to go fishing with and to game with now rember work is the other 4 letter word  tha now enters the cuss work category
Txgirl
Feb 01, 2010 2:30 pm
That's me too Ed!

Hysterectomy went bad when he cut my colon, laid there for 4 days dying. Sepsis, E. Coli, blah blah blah...TA DAAAAAAA~ COLOSTOMY!!  lol



Hugs N kisses Ed~~ Hannah Banana  

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junopete
Feb 02, 2010 4:40 am
ED,



My colon over a period of about 2 or 3 months just stopped passing. It's called idiopathic constipation. Or constipation without cause. Other than 12 to 14 Ez-lax a day, nothing would help. Fiber made it worse, much worse.

The worry was developing mega-colon. The VA and/or the University of Washington Hospital did not know what to do with me.

After months of looking, I found a doctor that had dealt with this problem. Talked to a couple of his patients, who had good outcomes. The idea was to shorten the colon. Received the operation; things went very well for about 2 weeks. Then leakage from an unknown area, peritonitis (sp) the result. The surgeon could not find the leak. So instead of just giving me a temp ileostomy and letting things heal up, the arrogant ass cut the rest of my colon out.

He did not tell me of this until 6 months later.

A long story. I found another surgeon that fixes other surgeons' screw-ups. Several operations later, I now have a J pouch. I have had the pouch for about 13 months. It has its problems, believe me. Remember, I was not dealing with Crohn's, U/C, or cancer. My gut was not diseased. The peristaltic muscle movement just stopped. May have been Agent Orange; no one knows. I do have a full rectum, which makes the J pouch work much better than most.

I have the J pouch trying to act as colon and a storage plus the rectum. As long as I take Lomotil, I am for the most part alright. I was taking 8 plus a day; that was not enough.

I am at about 6 per day, with a longer day. By that, I mean I was sleeping more, which gave me fewer movements a day. However, now, I eat almost nothing during the day.

With the J pouch, I have never had an accident, even while sleeping. Which is unheard of early in the life of a J pouch. I do the Kegel exercise all the time on my anus muscle.

I do get a lot of cramping, mostly late in the day. Mostly from gas. My diet is extremely (sp) restrictive. Mostly protein. I can tolerate small amounts of V-8 juice and apples.

If my girlfriend had not left me over this deal, I may have stayed with the ileostomy.

My system is still evolving from the surgeries. The first 7 months with the J pouch were a nightmare. I said to myself, if this is all there is, the bag is better. I couldn't get away from a toilet. The only way I could manage is simply do not eat, nothing in, nothing out!



For people getting a J pouch that do not have a rectum, I just can't see how the J pouch would work at all.



It is better now, somewhere in the middle of being "normal" or having an ileostomy.



I wrote a 5-page synopsis of the surgeries, sent it out to several medical malpractice attorneys. Most agreed the first surgeon "botched," their words, the operation. However, to prove malpractice would be difficult to impossible. The surgeons simply have too much latitude for decision-making when the patient is under. Even if prior instructions were given.



Hope this helps, as always pardon the spelling.

Rick.....
gutenberg
Feb 03, 2010 4:00 pm
To all who replied to my query I am deeply grateful, not that I'd wish this on anybody, but its good to know "WE'RE NOT ALONE" Many thanks. Ed
Txgirl
Feb 03, 2010 4:27 pm
BIG {{hugs}} to you Ed!

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car1951
Apr 28, 2010 1:01 am
Hi, Ed.  I have both a colonostomy and an ileu.  In 2003 I went in for a simple hernia surgery.  The mesh I recieved was the infamous Bard mesh that was recalled.  The center ring broke and the mesh wrapped my intestines cutting some of the nastiest fistulas that anyone ever had to live with--kid you not--one of them was four inches across and had four inches of gut hanging thru it!

It nearly killed me.  With an excellant surgeron and good care, I'm here today.  Needless to say,

after that fistula, I consider my current condition a vast improvement.  I've had five surgeries--all

were left open for months afterward.  I've also had a real list of painful treatments.  I have a hernia the size of a basketball and more scars than most would believe possible.  My ileu sits in the bottom of a really bad one and I've had problems holding a wafer more than a day at a time.

I expect to win a very nice settlement (so my lawyers tell me) and feel I deserve it.  That blasted mesh ended a career I loved, had excellant wages and superb benefits.  No, you are not alone--I'm stilled pissed about what happened to me.

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