Reversal Anxiety

I will be reversing my ileostomy soon and I am really nervous. I am excited because I won't be attached to a bag anymore and I am looking forward to summer. I believe this will be a summer of growth. But I am nervous. I started with a colostomy and now I have an ileostomy (which will be reversed) and I have been attached to a bag for almost two years, so I'm nervous about how it will go.

I'm scared that I am rushing it because I felt like I rushed the first colostomy reversal without doing a lot of research and I made things worse for myself, so I am really nervous now. The last thing I want is more pain or to have any reason to stay longer in the hospital.

Has anyone recently done a reversal? And how was it? How did your body adjust?

Hi Moyo - If you haven't done so, I would suggest contacting the Ostomy Canada Society https://www.ostomycanada.ca/. In addition to this excellent MAO site, OSC can provide you with some useful and soothing information. Best, Bryce

I think you need to have a serious talk with your surgeon(s) about the reversal after a failed colostomy reversal. You should listen very carefully, hearing everything, not just what you want to hear. After one failure, you have reason to be nervous. Your thoughts that you rushed the colostomy reversal may just be your way of justifying the failure—this shouldn't be the case unless you insisted on the reversal despite cautionary advice from your surgeon(s). The other thing you have to consider is that your bowel movements may not be as you are anticipating after the reversal—the prior reversal could be a red flag. So ask your surgeon the tough questions: Why did the colostomy reversal fail? Could the same or similar problems occur with this ileo reversal? Do you think after the reversal, I have a good chance of having normal bowel movements? Have you performed reversals with other patients in similar circumstances as me? What are my options if the reversal fails? If I was your child, what would be your recommendation? Don't be afraid to seek answers to these questions. Don't settle for evasive answers; if your surgeon won't answer these questions, seek out another one. Many people have successful reversals. Praying that everything works out for you.

I agree that you need to be cautious about this decision. Why didn't your colostomy reversal work? What assurances do you have that this reversal will be any better? Is your colon intact or has all or part of it been removed? This will make a huge difference in your chances of a successful reversal. A second opinion might be a really good idea. Is your surgeon fully on board with this, or is it you that is pushing for it?

Terry

Here's my opinion, and I have no chance at reversal. If your surgeon says it's possible and can be successful, why not give it a try? You already stated you'd be excited to not be attached to a bag. Of course, there are going to be some issues “getting back to normal,” but isn't a little inconvenience for a short time worth the long-term outcome? And if it doesn't work, you go back to an ostomy, which you already know how to handle. Seems like an easy decision to make. Good luck.

Hello. I recently had a colostomy reversal because my surgeon thought it would be successful, and I fully trusted him. Yes, there was pain, and it took a little bit to get back on track, but it was well worth it to me, and things are going great. Like Alex said, I already knew how to handle an ostomy, so if I had to go back to it, I knew I wouldn't have an issue with doing that. I understand your fears—maybe talk those fears over with your surgeon and make a decision based on those answers. Wishing you the best!

Thank you guys for your replies. The reason it failed previously was that my colon got blocked again because of my endometriosis (my period). I have severe endometriosis, and after my last extensive surgery (endometriosis removal and colostomy reversal), my surgeon did a temporary ileostomy so that my colon could heal. I just have trauma from having to reopen an ostomy that was closed, so that's why I'm nervous. I've been told by my gynecologist that the chances of having my colon blocked again the same way are slim to none. Also, I am on medication to prevent such.

I'm sorry I didn't mean to reply to Alex with my message! Lol. Sounds like you have a slim chance the same problem would reoccur, so that is a good thing! Best of luck!

Sounds less risky now — more optimism from the gynecologist. To close the loop, I would still have a conversation with the surgeon. I am praying for you to have a successful reversal. I saw a statistic that said most reversal surgeries are successful.

How exciting. I had mine reversed last year, and it was the hardest surgery by far out of everything I have gone through. Mine was a two-step surgery, so two surgeries within 2 months of each other. The pain was excruciating after each, and after the first, I could not get my bag to stay on (they revised and created a new, bigger stoma), and I suffered extreme skin issues every single day, so I had to get home health to come in to help out. I am still having issues after my revision, which I thought I would be cleared of all issues, but I was wrong. Best of luck with your surgery!