Hi ... I had an emergency ileostomy done in Feb 2012. I was on life support and in a coma in ICU for over 4 weeks.
It was a shock to wake up with this bag hanging off me.... They said they could do a reversal....in a few months...
Well, a few months turned into 15 months....because I had an infection and plus the surgery was scheduled 4 times and cancelled....twice by the doctor..to put an emergency in my spot and twice I made it to the operating room only to have it cancelled because of my lungs...
I was very nervous...because I had read all these horror stories online about going to the washroom 30 times a day for the first bit after surgery and also not having control and then maybe after a year going six to ten times a day..depending.
I also had my surgeon tell me three times what a high-risk surgery it was and how I could die of all these different things...
With everything I read and heard, I almost did not do it...
Anyway, I finally had it done...4 weeks ago....And I am happy to say I am so so glad I did it...
The pain was bad after the surgery for a few days...I had an epidural but then they removed it ..one doc said it was not working.. so they put me on a pain pump....and I can tell you the epidural was working...
Anyway...two days after surgery I had one BM loose...Then they said I had to wait till I had gas or regular BM to go home...after I started eating regular food...A week later nothing had happened so they sent me home anyway...
The second day home I threw up ...after eating breakfast...and had another loose BM.
After that, I waited for the running to the washroom to start...like I was told and what I had read about.....A week later I had nothing still....I was getting worried....But then finally I went to the washroom and it was completely normal....
Since that day...I have gone to the washroom once a day first thing in the morning and that is it....It has been a completely normal BM....I have been 3 weeks like this.....Only once a day......NO loss of control..no running 30 times...no diarrhea..
I have no large bowel left....only a small bowel....All the horror stories I have read...and all the worry was for nothing...
I swore if I had a good outcome I would write about it...because I only found one positive story when I was reading on the internet...and it was because of that lady or angel I should say that I went through with my surgery...She was only going 3 times a day....
I count my blessings...I am unsure how I will be in a year but I figure if I am this good now...I am very blessed and lucky so I want everyone considering a reversal to not listen to all these horror stories..We are all different and there are people like me that have had great outcomes.....they probably just do not come back to write about it....
All the best to all of you....
Glad to be back to normal.....after lots of prayers......
It was a shock to wake up with this bag hanging off me.... They said they could do a reversal....in a few months...
Well, a few months turned into 15 months....because I had an infection and plus the surgery was scheduled 4 times and cancelled....twice by the doctor..to put an emergency in my spot and twice I made it to the operating room only to have it cancelled because of my lungs...
I was very nervous...because I had read all these horror stories online about going to the washroom 30 times a day for the first bit after surgery and also not having control and then maybe after a year going six to ten times a day..depending.
I also had my surgeon tell me three times what a high-risk surgery it was and how I could die of all these different things...
With everything I read and heard, I almost did not do it...
Anyway, I finally had it done...4 weeks ago....And I am happy to say I am so so glad I did it...
The pain was bad after the surgery for a few days...I had an epidural but then they removed it ..one doc said it was not working.. so they put me on a pain pump....and I can tell you the epidural was working...
Anyway...two days after surgery I had one BM loose...Then they said I had to wait till I had gas or regular BM to go home...after I started eating regular food...A week later nothing had happened so they sent me home anyway...
The second day home I threw up ...after eating breakfast...and had another loose BM.
After that, I waited for the running to the washroom to start...like I was told and what I had read about.....A week later I had nothing still....I was getting worried....But then finally I went to the washroom and it was completely normal....
Since that day...I have gone to the washroom once a day first thing in the morning and that is it....It has been a completely normal BM....I have been 3 weeks like this.....Only once a day......NO loss of control..no running 30 times...no diarrhea..
I have no large bowel left....only a small bowel....All the horror stories I have read...and all the worry was for nothing...
I swore if I had a good outcome I would write about it...because I only found one positive story when I was reading on the internet...and it was because of that lady or angel I should say that I went through with my surgery...She was only going 3 times a day....
I count my blessings...I am unsure how I will be in a year but I figure if I am this good now...I am very blessed and lucky so I want everyone considering a reversal to not listen to all these horror stories..We are all different and there are people like me that have had great outcomes.....they probably just do not come back to write about it....
All the best to all of you....
Glad to be back to normal.....after lots of prayers......