I post this here, and on other forums of similar subject matter so people facing a comparable 'reversal' situation can read my experiences. Comments and questions are most welcome.
I was driving home from work in December 2008, when I was hit by a young man who was attempting a reckless maneuver at insanely high speed. Ultimately, he crossed into my lane and plowed directly into the driver's side of my car. As I was being cut out of the car by the emergency services, I faded into unconsciousness. I awoke four days later in intensive care to discover I had suffered in excess of twenty fractures of varying severity, including: a broken femur, a broken femoral head, a broken hip/pelvis (x10), a broken chest, broken arm (x4), a compound fracture of the wrist and other such delights. I also suffered damage to the radial nerve which left me with a completely paralyzed right hand (locked into a 'claw' position). On top of all this, I also suffered fairly extensive internal damage, including: a ruptured spleen (which had to be removed), a severe pulmonary contusion of the lung, a ruptured intestine, and last, but by no means least, a ruptured colon which resulted in a sigmoid loop colostomy. They could offer no guarantees regarding the possibility of reversal until it was determined how well the intestine and colon were going to heal. I was 30 years old.
Eleven weeks and five operations later, they sent me home, with a completely disabled hand, four permanent metal plates holding my arm and leg together, and a little stoma bag glued tightly to the left side of my stomach. Not a great start to the new year.
Upon arriving home, my obvious first challenge was learning to adapt to life with the little bag, and primarily how I was going to manage it with only one fully functional hand. It took a while (probably a month or so), but I quickly developed a system. As world-shattering as it seems at first, you do learn to cope with them.
Initially, the plan by my doctors was to start looking at the possibility of reversal after six months, but due to complications relating to my shattered pelvis, this was abandoned in favor of a more indefinite "when your orthopedic injuries are fully healed" type approach.
So, after nearly eleven months, I was deemed sufficiently stable enough to face the possibility of more surgery, so off I went for the endoscopy tests, and thankfully my colon had appeared to have healed well, so I was given the go-ahead for a reversal attempt. Six weeks later and I went in for the surgery.
As of writing, two weeks to the day after having the reversal, everything seems to have gone OK. I was only in hospital for five days, and was eating lightly after two and a half. I managed to go to the toilet after three days with no real problems, and while I suffered from diarrhea for a week or so, I suffered no 'cramps' as such, the only real pain I experienced was related to the post-op bruises and stitches around the former stoma location, but that's getting better every day.
For the first time in over a year I'm actually feeling good, a little tired and a bit sore, but getting stronger every day. I'm eating lightly, but steadily, especially things with high protein content (tuna, chicken, skimmed milk, etc), I've been informed by my doctors that the possibility for leakage remains for between six-eight weeks, so I'm taking no chances with doing anything physical at all for that duration of time.
The nerve damage in my hand is steadily improving, and is probably at about 60% at the moment, but I'm not giving up thinking positively about a full recovery.
I now walk with a fairly heavy limp, and I'm probably never going to play football for England, but all things considered, I'm doing ok. I'm hoping to return to work mid-March. I would have been off by that point for nearly fourteen months.
I wore a colostomy for thirteen months. I managed to cope with the practicalities of the situation literally with one hand. These little bags are not the end of the world, but I am glad to be rid of it.
God bless.
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