I got my ileostomy in 03 and have been down that road where at times I have had to change the flange up to 8 times a day as I was having kidney problems which led to potassium problems and the flange would just fall off, then as things got better I could go up to two days before I would get a leak, always at the 9 o'clock position, thats with me looking down at the flange, I tried paste and strips of the material that looked like the material of the flange, (forgot what it was called) then came the breakthrough with advice from a couple of lovely ladies on the forums. First I started using Hollister Adapt rings and quit using the skin prep, using only the glue remover and washing up with a soap that had no lotions or perfumes, we still had a way to go so another dear lady told me about using a hair dryer on low for about 20 seconds and then applying while still warm and NOW I have the world by the tail, up to seven days and just change the pouch about every third day. Still, I knew I needed to do something about the adapt rings as I found my fingers were not adapt friendly!, so out to my shed in the middle of winter and in the below freezing temps I found a piece of wooden dowel about 18' long, and using my bench grinder I managed to taper the 1 inch down to 1/2 inch, cut it off around 3 inches and got my ass back inside the house to get thawed out, keerist, it was cold but anyway, using the card for measuring the stoma size, stuck the tapered dowel in the 7/8 hole and marked it around with a pen marker, so now I have a jig which gives me just a slight squeeze all around the stoma and nothing can get by that and with the flange on gave me more room for the liquid to fall into the pouch and now when I change the flange I always check the back, and its always the same as the day I put it on.
YET, I kept thinking there was something better than the wooden dowel and a few weeks ago at the Dollar Store I seen this object that looked like I big fat pen, (actually I went back a few days later and found out that was exactly what it was), in any event this thing was tapered on both ends so did the same as the dowel and used the card and marked it at 7/8, and being plastic was easy to remove any of the Adapt material that was making it sticky, now the funny thing was as I was cleaning it up with baby wipes one end came off and there was the end of a pen and when pushed on to write, it would light up and the stuff inside, like a paper weight with the snowflakes would light up so now I have 2 jigs from one pen and all for one dollar and being able to keep a good flange for a week was worth its weight in gold.
Now, to end this little screed, one night about a week or so ago I was sitting at my computer desk and there was my caliper sitting there and for some reason I decided to measure the knuckle of my thumb and guess what, it measured 7/8 inch, which goes to show this learning curve can take you down some strange side roads, finally, I hope this story will be of some help to some one, wishing all the best, Ed.
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Forgot to mention, I was having sore spots around the stoma from changing so frequently and after the first time I was able to keep the flange on for a week my skin cleared up completely, also my flange has a 1 inch opening so it doesn't take much to get behind and ruin your day.