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Hi there, I am new to this, so here goes... I am having a laparoscopic end colostomy and have no idea what that entails. The places available are all for loop... Any information I can get will be a big help. I am frightened but know I need it done. If you get a minute, I would love to hear from you. Thank you in advance for your help.

Hello wegotthis. Welcome to the site where I feel sure you will find out quite a bit about what it entails to have the operation and manage the colostomy afterwards. I am always a bit saddened to think that the medical staff have not gone thoroughly through the relevant aspects of the operation for prospective patients. However. there is plenty of information on the internet if you want something to refer to. I had a similar procedure to yourself which was what most people know as 'keyhole-surgery'. This means that they use instruments through tiny holes in the abdomen rather than cutting you open and stitching up afterwards.It is a much less intrusive operation and the recovery time is a lot shorter. However, do not be fooled into thinking that you can do all sorts of things too soon as there is quite a high risk of getting a hernia from these types of procedures if you are not careful for quite some time post-op. If you are having a colostomy I would recommend investigating 'irrigation'as this will give you much more flexibility in the management of the condition and it will probably improve your life in comparison to wearing bags. for the first time this should only be attempted with the help of a stoma-nurse. I was told not to attempt it until at least 6 weeks after the operation so you will have plenty of time to think about this. This can also be explored on the web. If, as you say, you need to have it done then presumably there is no other option, then from my own experience I would say that there is little to be afraid of and a much better life to look forward to. Almost everyone has some 'adjustments' to make in terms of management, lifestyle and attitudes but if you embrace the changes as inevitable and more positive than the alternatives then the chances of coping well improve no end. I look forward to hearing how you get on.Best wishes Bill

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