Confluence of ostomates

Replies
3
Views
295
Bill
Aug 24, 2023 6:37 am

CONFLUENCE OF OSTOMATES.   

When a group converse together
it will be their own choice whether 
they play an active part or not 
depending on the skills they’ve got.

Some will need facilitation
to establish a foundation
for a safe and friendly place 
to converse at their own pace.

Others may need professionals
or seclusion of confessionals
in order to express their view
without someone who might argue.  

Some may prefer a verbal group
to talk about the way they poop.
A place to find some empathy 
or maybe even sympathy. 

There’s those who have the skills to write
and so, for them, a group seems right 
communicating in this way
so that they may have their say.

There’s those who like the internet
to go and know that they can get
all the chat that they may need
to bring their knowledge up to speed. 

Social media can become 
the preferred way to talk for some.
Avoiding close proximity,
providing anonymity.
 
It doesn’t matter what you choose 
for there is little you would lose
by joining in a confluence
to stimulate your confidence. 

                                    B. Withers 2019 

 

Lynn

Hi Bill,

I'm sure you'll find plenty of support from our large community here. It's a great place to connect with others who understand what you're going through.

Your poem beautifully captures the diverse ways people can connect and share their experiences. Whether it's through writing, talking, or just reading, everyone can find their own comfort zone. It's important to have a space where we can express ourselves freely and find the support we need, and this community offers just that.

Congrats on being part of this community! You'll find lots of support, information, and some really cool people to connect with. Looking forward to seeing more of your contributions!

Megs
Aug 24, 2023 12:07 pm

You're my crutch always on this site. I have ileostomy and you have colostomy so similar but different. I've had mine since 1986 and think I've coped through everything.  I'm 71 now.  I've changed my appliance for a more updated one since then. I'm amazed at how things have grown. I was 34 and it seems to me not a lot has changed with people needing this op. I wish it had.  

Gray Logo for MeetAnOstoMate

MeetAnOstoMate.org is the only place where people truly understand you. It's because everyone here has an ostomy.

Many come here for advice or to give advice, others have found good friends, and some have even built long-lasting relationships.

Privacy is very important - there are many features only visible to members.

Create Account

Join our website with 39,509 members. You won't regret it.

Bill
Aug 24, 2023 3:58 pm
Reply to Megs

Thanks Megs.

It's always gratifying to think that people read the stuff I post - especially when they also appreciate it!!

Best wishes

Bill

TerryLT
Aug 24, 2023 8:57 pm

I love this one Bill.

Terry