Managing more mucus mishaps

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Bill
Jan 21, 2025 8:49 am

MANAGING MORE MISHAP MUCUS.

When I first had my stoma, I
was never told the reason why
I would still be incontinent
and that could become dominant.

I’ve always managed my stoma 
with all it’s shit and aroma
without becoming too distressed,
anxiety-ridden, or depressed. 

But mucus from my arse is such
that I just think it is too much
and, there are times I cannot cope,
then I begin to lose all hope.

The problem with my bum is that
it should come with a caveat,
which warns us of how gravity
can draw stuff from this cavity.

It’s also inaccessible, 
which makes it seem inevitable
that, as it’s hard, the end result
means management is difficult.

Though I try hard, it is in vain
as mucus is hard to contain
so, when it comes out in excess
I end up in an awful mess.

Inco-pads do not work well
for, as far as I can tell,
they don’t absorb this slippery slime
so down my legs will slide the grime.

This mess is so disgusting, I
sometimes begin to wonder why
I have not found solutions to
this problem, like I often do. 

Although I’ve tried my very best,
mucus has put me to the test 
so, I’d appreciate you all
 to send suggestions, big or small.
                                                B. Withers 2024

SusanT
Jan 21, 2025 5:32 pm

Hi Bill,

I haven't had this problem (yet), possibly because I'm getting liquid drainage from my fistula. Incontinence pads work well for that but it gave me a thought. Incontinence pads are really designed for highly liquid output like urine. This sounds thicker and more gooey than urine. Perhaps try a menstrual pad? That is designed for thicker menstrual output. I've noticed differences in their performance so the menstrual pads may work better for this. 

It's just a random idea but might be worth a try. 

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Bill
Jan 21, 2025 6:51 pm
Reply to SusanT

Hello SusanT.
Thank you so much for responding to this rhyme, with what seems like a reasonable suggestion . 
I have tried tampons but they did not work for me as the just slid straight out (that mucus is a slippery problem).
It did occur to me to try the pads that my wife uses, but they are a fraction of the size of the pads I currently use, (which also  double-up for urine incontinence, (Oh! the joys of getting old)!!

At present. I fold up a piece of toilet tissue and wedge it between my legs. This helps to slow the flow and give the inco-pad a chance.  However, none of it stands a chance when the flow is too much or too fast. 
However, I might try what you suggest but  put one pad over the other and see how that works.
Best wishes

Bill