Hey Vulcan,
You really made me laugh with your reply to attending an Ostomy association meeting/convention.
You sounded like I did when I was 15, and my parents dragged me off kicking and screaming to my first meeting after my ileostomy surgery. Funny, I actually found I liked it, met a lot of nice people, and many teens and young adults in the NYC/Met. area. We even started our own young adult group, so we could talk about topics we didn't want the "elders" to hear: S-E-X. But time passed, and most of us grew up and moved away, and once I married, had kids, and settled in NJ, I no longer felt I had a need for meetings.
But then I found this site a few years ago, met a few people, and decided to go to last year's regional conference in the Washington DC area. I met Lady Hope in person, and actually enjoyed seeing the new products different vendors were showing. Got a lot of free samples too.
I don't know that I'm anxious to keep going, but I'd advise anyone new to life with an ostomy to give a meeting or conference a try. Like you, I have many other interests (travel!!!) and things I'd rather chat about. For seven years, I flew around the country (USA), Mexico, Canada, the Caribbean, and even to Haiti, in the co-pilot seat of a single-engine plane (Bonanza). That was a fabulous way of seeing this beautiful world. And when that ended (my friend/travel companion & plane went "missing" and was never found) I toured the rest of the world...Europe, Israel, South Africa, China, Japan...and to Australia 7 times to see my son who lives there with his wife and kids.
I don't know if I would have been as adventurous (with the ostomy) had I not been as involved with others who were living a full life with an ostomy.
Best regards, Marsha