I'm sorry you're still feeling badly, but as bad as it sounds, you're still really early in the process. Plus, by virtue of it being an "emergency" surgery, it's far more traumatic. My psychiatrist told me that for every hour of being under anesthesia, it takes at least two months to recover... add any traumatic events more than doubles that. I just passed 7 months and I'm still having a hard time bouncing back. I also have cramping. I know my surgeon is frustrated wih me and even says that she told me in the beginning that the surgery wouldn't "necessarily" take away all the pain -- well, that's a bit ambiguous! My endocrynologist told me to stay at it and keep asking questions... it's my right.
I'm sure it's especially difficult for you because of having to go through the VA, right? How's your output? Are your chewing really well? That's an old habit hard to change. I've always been bad about eating on the go. I actually get an upset stomach with ibuprofen and have to be real careful about OTC anti-inflamation because I had Barret's Esophagus.
You might ask about Bentyl -- it's supposed to relieve the spasms. Also, if the cramps are up higher (more from the stomach) do you think Prevacid or an aniacid would help?
My pain is more often in the lower abdomen... if I didn't know better (complete hysterectomy), I'd think I was having a period. I also still feel like I have to go to the bathroom the old way which drives me crazy. I have another appointment with the surgeon coming up on the 21st.. I am not very hopeful that I'll get answers, but I have to try.
I hope you're able to get some relief.
Take care, Vicki