Upcoming Cottage Trip - Procedures & Anxieties

Replies
26
Views
965
Abefroman1969
Aug 17, 2022 1:03 pm

This afternoon I am heading back to the cottage (hospital). I'm packing for a month because that seems to be how long they keep me every time.

Procedures scheduled: rectal stump removal, possibly move prolapsed ileostomy, fix parastomal hernia with mesh. Ken's butt has to wait, as his skin is in terrible condition due to hidradenitis. Scheduled for 3:15pm today.

Happy to be moving forward finally, but anxiety is still my biggest enemy. I just want to get there and get knocked out.

Going to the bakery in the hospital lobby to get cookies (palmiers) for when they let me eat again. So I will have something to look forward to other than my favorite nurse who is working today and this weekend. She makes me feel safe where others fail. There are actually two of them, but I don't know if the other is working. Amanda and Darlene are my hospital heroes.

Stay well, my friends.

Abe

ron in mich
Aug 17, 2022 1:12 pm

Hi Abe, good luck with your procedures. Let us know how it goes.

Gray Logo for MeetAnOstoMate

Why Join MeetAnOstoMate?

First off, this is a pretty cool site with 37,000 members who truly understand you.

It's not all about ostomy. We talk about everything.

Many come here for advice or to give advice, others have found good friends, and some have even found love. Most importantly, people here are honest and genuinely care.

🛑 Privacy is very important - we have many features that are only visible to members, ensuring a safe and secure environment for you to share and connect.

Create an account and you will be amazed by the warmth of this community.

Caz67
Aug 17, 2022 1:13 pm

Onward and upward, Paul, for you XX.

Homie With A Stomie NS
Aug 17, 2022 2:50 pm

You got this...sending fast healing vibes along with hugs and loves....Speedy recovery, get er done!!!!

Here's to a new adventure and get your ass up and get home fast....

Take care, my friend. Keep us posted.

Your Homie with a Stomie.

Tracy

AlexT
Aug 17, 2022 3:27 pm

Good luck, hope all goes well. Remember, the sponge baths are not for your pleasure.

 

Stories of Living Life to the Fullest from Ostomy Advocates I Hollister

Play
Past Member
Aug 17, 2022 3:32 pm

Sending loads of love and positive vibes your way, Paul.

Past Member
Aug 17, 2022 4:32 pm

Best of luck, chap. Hope it goes well for you and enjoy the cookies!

Save Ferris

HenryM
Aug 17, 2022 4:38 pm

Thinking about you, Abe, and wishing you the best.  HenryM

Justbreathe
Aug 17, 2022 4:49 pm

Best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery - will be thinking of you this afternoon and sending positive thoughts your way!

eefyjig
Aug 17, 2022 5:13 pm

May you have the smoothest, swiftest recovery. Lots of folks will be here thinking about you. That's very smart to get those cookies to look forward to!

#Highlyfavored
Aug 17, 2022 7:16 pm

Get well soon.

TerryLT
Aug 17, 2022 8:46 pm

Best of luck, Paul. With all this positive energy headed your way, you are sure to sail through this! Good to prepare for a month, and maybe you will be pleasantly surprised. Stay strong.

Terry

Hairdresser
Aug 17, 2022 11:20 pm

Good luck! Speedy recovery... God bless!

Axl
Aug 18, 2022 9:48 am

You're having more than your share of trouble, Abe. I hope you get sorted soon. It's great how some nurses just click and take a special interest. I have some great nurse memories, which makes a tough time tolerable.

Abefroman1969
Aug 18, 2022 12:45 pm
Reply to Axl

So true! Typing with the oximeter on my fat fingers isn't making this any easier! I do love

my nurses are the absolute best and we are off to a good start today!

Abefroman1969
Aug 18, 2022 12:47 pm
Reply to eefyjig

My nurses were impressed with the foresight to get them!

Abefroman1969
Aug 18, 2022 5:53 pm

Ketamine is not fun. I am seeing things and can't read or reply because my finger got even fatter somehow. It took almost 20 minutes to write this reply.

Justbreathe
Aug 18, 2022 6:01 pm
Reply to Abefroman1969

Had to look that one up. Taking ketamine can make you feel: dream-like and detached, chilled, relaxed, and happy, confused and nauseated.
Hope you feel all of the above except confused and nauseated. Thinking positive thoughts of you today and wishing you the best!

AlexT
Aug 18, 2022 6:14 pm

Cooper said hi.
Login to see image

Past Member
Aug 18, 2022 6:27 pm
Reply to Abefroman1969

Say hi to Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds for me.


Login to see image

Caz67
Aug 18, 2022 6:42 pm

I'm they used to give that to horses. Take care XX

Abefroman1969
Aug 18, 2022 7:01 pm
Reply to AlexT

Hi Cooper! Made my day seeing his handsome self!

eefyjig
Aug 18, 2022 11:48 pm
Reply to Justbreathe

If feeling dream-like, chilled, and relaxed and as long as confusion and nausea aren't a concern, maybe listening to In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida in its entirety is indicated.

Casper9
Aug 19, 2022 1:15 pm

Hi Abe, looks like I'm a bit late to the party but I hope everything went well and you are having a good recovery so far. Hope those nurses are taking good care of you!!! ‍

countyclare
Aug 19, 2022 1:24 pm

I just saw your message. Hopefully, you'll get some medical issues completed and you'll begin to feel better.

Please keep in touch and let us know how you are doing. You are in our thoughts.

Mike from Lakewood, Ohio, USA (

Mabsie Moll
Aug 19, 2022 3:57 pm

My heart goes out to you. You sound positive. I never mind going for surgery, it's the waking up part I hate because that brings pain and discomfort. You will be fine. Sending love and light.

TerryLT
Aug 19, 2022 9:31 pm
Reply to eefyjig

Now, there's a blast from the past! Far out man!!