hi all this is my 2nd attempt to writing this blog. well here goes i hope it is not too long! I have had my Stoma since 2006.My bowel perforated and I was alone and way out in the country hr's away from emergency Hospitals. My partner went to Sydney the day before. I rang 000 (emergency) unlocked front door. I woke up days later in HDU and i thought i was dead until i saw all tubes etc. I was told I had diverticulitis and was no way it could be reversed as it would do it all over again. I died twice I was told I had the best Surgeon in the country and he saved me when I should have died. I need for you to know this as it is important in what I will be asking for help. I was still a very sick person and was not out of the woods. Ok next after I went back to the country I was so not happy with this bag sitting on my tummy, but i learned to like it as it was keeping me alive and I had finally accepted it. Not for long as I got this what i learnt later to be a hernia and was travelling for hrs to and from the city, as I could not keep a bag on and if it stayed on for any length of time I got a very bad odour all this was 24/7. My Stoma Sister was off her face and she was hrs away. My Surgeon finally booked me in for a mesh repair.that was September 2008. Got home and not long after i was getting a massive amount of pain just like when it 1st happened was rushed to City n was operated on again as my bowel was strangling cause it broke out of the mesh. went home and in a couple of days was another emergency dash to operate again as it broke out again. So he repaired it and then put it all in a cage??? (Don't know what it is called). I now live very close to the Hospital , am living by myself as cant live with any one re odour etc. Now it has burst the banks again and MY Dr said he has to operate but cant do it where it is he has to move the lot. My problem now is I have bad days n not too bad ones. Dr will not operate as I have put on a lot of weight, I am very depressed. I had a total knee construction last year and had to fight for my life again as I got two massive clots on both my lungs from that op. I am also booked in to have the other knee done and I am so scared. My surgeon said he will operate if it is a life or death situation or I lose weight and get down to 80kgs. I have good days n really bad ones. I totally understand where he is coming from because it is going to be a massive operation he wants to give me a better chance. His words, so i am scared.
Has anyone ever had this or similar as I am so so scared I wont make it this time round !!!!. My stoma is inverted and it is in a crater like a damn volcano :)
thank you for reading this and maybe some advice would be greatly appreciated.
hey mooza helpppppp please
Has anyone ever had this or similar as I am so so scared I wont make it this time round !!!!. My stoma is inverted and it is in a crater like a damn volcano :)
thank you for reading this and maybe some advice would be greatly appreciated.
hey mooza helpppppp please