Reversal to Ileostomy - Seeking Recovery Advice

Hey all, after looking online all night with no success, I remembered this great community and just wondered if anyone has been in a similar situation and could share their story/recovery. Sorry it's a bit long....

In June 2021, my 7-year-old got a stoma due to chemo side effects. Basically, it never helped, so in Oct 21, his colon was removed and he got an ileostomy (sorry about spelling). Then in Aug 2022, after having it prolapse leaving a small hole that meant he kept getting sepsis, it was decided to give full reversal and see how it went. Well, it's not. So on Friday, he goes back in to get the ileostomy put back in. Has anyone had this? He was very, very poorly after reversal, ending up in PICU mainly because it took his bowels so long to work. I would just love more info. How long will he be down? Is this going to be bad because I have been told each time the bowel gets handled, it takes longer to return to normal. So if you include the prolapse and the exploratory operation after reversal, it will be 6 bowel operations since June 22. We do, including him, feel he needs it back, just worried about recovery, etc., and what to expect.

This all must be tough for you as his mom and for him either. I will be praying for you both. Is he in remission?

Are you using NHS or private? (Asking because of possible different options)

He has 6 more months of chemo. It's a three-and-a-half-year-old treatment plan. But cancer-wise, he seems to be doing great. It's the side effects from the chemo that's the worst part.

NHS babe, everything has been so far.

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So sorry he's going through that. Can the doctors give him TPN through IV while his gut heals/wakes up and is he still on antibiotics?

There's a Cleveland Clinic in London, is there any way you could get a consult there and they might be able to collaborate or do a consult with your son? I apologize as I don't know all the intricacies between NHS care and private care - what I know is very broad.

There's at least 2 former medical people I wish I could tag to look at your post. I checked and don't see either online right now. With my last surgery in November, when my ileus decided not to wake up, they told me that with every bowel operation there's a 50/50 chance it will wake up quickly/correctly (I don't remember that statistic beforehand) - but I don't know if the statistic is the same for children as adults.
It sounds like you've got quite the little trooper there.

Years ago, after my reconnection surgery at Mayo in Rochester, my bowel took around 10 days to wake up. They had to put in an NG tube to drain my guts, and they didn't want me throwing up to not add any trauma to the surgery. They did everything they could to let it wake up on its own and were close to giving me nutrition through a PICC line. Probably the same as what they are doing with your son because every time they have to do surgery, it could cause other problems. Hopefully, it wakes on its own soon. I know there are people on here with more experience with situations like your boys and will see your post and help you out.

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I am really sorry. I know it must be tough. My nephew had leukemia when he was 1 and a half to 2 years old, and his treatment plan was a long one. I will be praying for that sweet child of yours and for you, mom.

So sorry you and your little one are going through all this. Sending loads of love and positive vibes your way.