Reply to tnmontan9721
Hello again TNMontan 9721
IMHO/E = In my humble opinion [with a small o, i.e., not a professional opinion] and IMHE means experience [experience of a lay patient, i.e., not professional experience]..
;-) [smiley face with raised eyebrow]
I too, am no medic - thus anything I express can only be from a patient's understanding according to my experience.
That said, like you, IT and Design is my own background - thus NO PROFESSIONAL MEDICAL OPINION IS EVER EXPRESSED BY ME.
I am sorry to learn of your experience - especially from the response from the clinicians who have been dismissive of your inquiries by one-line responses. Clearly, this is not helpful; in fact, in itself such written response is disrespectful and singularly unhelpful..... [although it may be viewed as a shorthand communication between medics - as a sort of rating of urgency/priority]: Clearly, I am not au fait with how the US medical health service works - so far as I understand - in general terms - you guys have health insurance - and as such it would seem to me that any practicing clinician should be aware of DUE DILIGENCE and, whilst may have their own individual protocols in dealing with their business, must surely be rated according to their patient/surgical outcomes and their own professional bodies [i.e., rules as to medics' conduct/procedures/protocols].
Perhaps it may help for you to revert to your General Practitioner [or whatever the equivalent is in the States] i.e., your primary health care professional - who may help and be able to recommend a good hernia surgeon with whom you may consult [i.e., recommend through knowledge of good feedback from other patients] - just a thought.
I wish you well - KEEP ON INSISTING UPON ANSWERS - FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN accounts for so much unnecessary stress - we all deserve courtesy and IMHE it sometimes takes the patient a lot of perseverance to arrive at an informed place from whence one can proceed with confidence.
The bottom line, it seems to me, is: Always BE OPEN in one's THOUGHTS - Think the best and try and forgive the worst - but realistically stand your ground - in the overall scheme of things - it would seem that Gratitude is important - and generally those folk who are not able to respond to genuine care or concern, eventually learn to improve ..... In the meantime, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF and always know that others too have their own challenges which are not always apparent.
Most medics give of their best within the constraints in which they operate and so long as greed or an untenable business model does not rule their Practice then patients will be able to have a balanced confidence in professional ability and care, both of which are paramount in going forward with confidence - for BOTH the Medic AND the Patient.
GOOD LUCK - VIRTUAL HUG
Jayne
Best Wishes from across the pond [ocean] ~ ~ ~ ~ waves from the UK
Jayne