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Hello! I did blog some things on this site about my hospital stay, etc. you can look back on. A big thing for me was that I had to do a bowel prep the day before reversal - please have your wound nurse order an extra large capacity bag with a drain tap, along with tubing that connects to a bigger bag for sleeping (or you can also order it yourself I'm sure). That was a lifesaver. I stayed in a hotel a few blocks from the hospital so I wouldn't have to deal with driving during a bowel prep. There were antibiotics I had to take before surgery - if you need any, your surgeon should have already called them in to a pharmacy.
I would bring Desitin or something similar and use it before a BM, baby wipes to use instead of TP so your bottom doesn't get sore, and Depends (the hospital had these for me) - I wore them because I needed help to get to the bathroom when I had the urge, and the staff was sometimes slow to arrive. Also, a good abdominal binder - the hospital only had one for me that was way too big, and did nothing for me.
My stomach made some crazy gurgling sounds for a good couple of days. But I had a BM the same day of surgery, so I went back on track very quickly with my bathroom habits - no loss of control, perhaps because I only had my ostomy for 8 months? Because of this, I was eating regular foods the next day. Even though I was told I could eat whatever I wanted, I stayed lower fiber for a month or so just to be safe. I can currently eat whatever I want...but advise starting slowly with the fiber. I have had a few flares of hemorrhoids - I had one when I was pregnant many years ago that never fully went away, so that one had acted up a few times. I think my behind was in shock for a while when I started using it again. I now make sure I use Tucks preventatively every time I go.
I didn't have to take very many pain pills, maybe 2 or 3 after my release - mainly took Tylenol and Advil. So I did not have an issue with constipation from the opioids. However, it is better to take the pain pills if needed - do not suffer. You can always take a stool softener if needed. To me, the reversal felt like a walk in the park compared to my original ordeal so I didn't take many- but I am not trying to mislead you...there will be some pain. And as you know, it is different for each person.
My parastomal hernia was fixed during my reversal. However, I came down with a virus a few days after surgery (my husband had been sick the 3 weeks leading up to my surgery)...I tried in vain not to cough, but nothing helped. If I wasn't coughing, I was sneezing - wore my binder, held my stomach - got a new hernia anyway, in a different spot. I met with a surgeon a few weeks ago...I will get a CT scan on July 13 and meet with him July 18 about surgery. He thinks I will need abdominal reconstruction. Keep in mind I have also had 3 abdominal surgeries, so my abdominal wall was very weak - it does not mean you will get a hernia. Just be careful and try not to cough, get constipated, lift anything heavy - all of this will increase pressure in your abdomen.
My bathroom habits as I mentioned went quickly back on track with what they were pre-ostomy - I have a normal movement once or twice a day, no urgency, no issues - and for this I am so grateful.
Try not to worry...things will go great! Best of luck - I will be praying and rooting for you!!
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