Hi..welcome to the community.
As far as recovering , it will take a bit of time. U won't be able to sit so would suggest getting those adjustable tables..like the ones similar to hospital bedside tables. U will need to stand to eat. Maybe get one for the lap top?
Getting into and out of bed u must keep legs together. Hopefully u can just roll over like that.
Have a person at home to help u out. Bending will be prohibited. IF u do attempt to sit, it's cheek to cheek. It won't be comfortable... And a soft pillow. Not a donut pillow.
Will u have nurse care at home? Ask if surgeon is going to sew up yur butt cheeks.
What type of stitches will he use? Others will chime in. I know I'm forgetting alot.
My surgery was Oct 2023.
Back to work in 6 months. ..as an auto mechanic full time since.
There were issues. Leakage. Abcess. Infection. Possibly bc I moved around alot while recovering at home...
Also, not sure what kind of state disability u may get but , like me, mine ran out 2 months before returning to work!!
So u best have a means of receiving money, or a stock pile of cash saved up. Look into what ever aid is available now and apply. That sucked for me, another story. Ha!
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Good Luck. It went by quickly regardless of issues I had that developed..and not much pain at all.