I would greatly appreciate any advice or tips from those who have had a proctectomy. Planning on surgery in September due to Crohn’s. Biggest worry is healing.
I have an ileostomy and surgeon will change this to a colostomy. Thank you for your recommendations.
Hi..welcome to the community.
As far as recovering , it will take a bit of time. U won't be able to sit so would suggest getting those adjustable tables..like the ones similar to hospital bedside tables. U will need to stand to eat. Maybe get one for the lap top?
Getting into and out of bed u must keep legs together. Hopefully u can just roll over like that.
Have a person at home to help u out. Bending will be prohibited. IF u do attempt to sit, it's cheek to cheek. It won't be comfortable... And a soft pillow. Not a donut pillow.
Will u have nurse care at home? Ask if surgeon is going to sew up yur butt cheeks.
What type of stitches will he use? Others will chime in. I know I'm forgetting alot.
My surgery was Oct 2023.
Back to work in 6 months. ..as an auto mechanic full time since.
There were issues. Leakage. Abcess. Infection. Possibly bc I moved around alot while recovering at home...
Also, not sure what kind of state disability u may get but , like me, mine ran out 2 months before returning to work!!
So u best have a means of receiving money, or a stock pile of cash saved up. Look into what ever aid is available now and apply. That sucked for me, another story. Ha!
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Good Luck. It went by quickly regardless of issues I had that developed..and not much pain at all.
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It takes longer to truly heal than anyone thinks. Go slow and easy. It’s much harder to not sit than a person thinks. Since you already have an ostomy, you don’t have to worry about figuring that out too. 👍 Ask for dissolvable stitches. Pain was tolerable, I took Tylenol religiously for about a month, take it before you need it is key. I also had to give myself blood thinner shots for a month to prevent clots, not sure if that’s common practice for everything nowadays or not. They will/should advise you to eat lots of protein, it’s key to healing. Keep your wound clean, shower with warm water, I used whatever the foamy soap the hospital used for awhile, and pat dry. Your(or anyone’s) butt crack is an ideal location for infection so keep it clean/dry. Depending on what you do daily/work can influence how long it’ll take to heal. I dealt with a radiation wound and finally got back to work after 9 months. My surgeon originally thought about 3 months off but that wound kept delaying my return. Probably didn’t help I remodeled the upstairs of my house 3 weeks after surgery. Then it was turkey season, then fishing. 😁 The only thing I wish I woulda had while I healed was a recliner. I couldn’t sit in a regular chair and laying/standing all the time got old. A recliner at least helps you up/down and you can kinda sit on one cheek or the other, you don’t wanna sit directly down like a regular chair. Without complications it’s really not that horrible, just takes adjusting to for awhile, good luck.
