AS A YOUNG MAN, I RESENTED my body’s need for sleep. There was just so much to do, so much going on, so many things to accomplish. I enjoyed my work, I looked forward to it every day, and I pitied those people who wandered vacantly about the office at the end of the work week moaning “thank God it’s Friday.” I wasn’t what’s called a ‘workaholic;’ I just felt an abiding sense of accomplishment at work. Nor did my work enjoyment detract from having warm feelings about my home life, my wife and my two daughters. I enjoyed that too. Having to spend six to eight hours asleep, away from my work and home life, irritated me. Now that I’m retired, however, and have somehow lived to become an octogenarian, my perspective on sleep has eased off a bit. Some evenings, I actually look forward to plopping down into bed. My need for the regeneration has never been greater. The ostomy may dictate that I have a couple of get-ups per night, but I’ve adapted and usually fall back to sleep within about fifteen minutes. I’d like to stop having motorcycle dreams, though, since I’d likely kill myself if I was foolish enough to get on one again.
Absolutely agree with all - except I still resist going to bed to sleep until it is really needed!
To displace the motorbike thing, Henry, you could set an intention to dream about another specific [that may not kill you when you indulge] - i.e., meditate on this, but when in your 'ready to sleep' situation... [maybe go for a swim - by invitation - from your favorite sea creature perhaps - as a 'fellow of theirs', of course.
... just a thought
As ever, TY for your inspiration
:-)
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I felt the same way about work, looked forward to it. I worked 10-12 hours a day, (and sometimes way more), 7 days a week for 40 years. My motto in the workplace was always: "Another day in paradise." My coworkers appreciated this upbeat attitude but were perplexed at the same time. Since I was a little boy, I usually slept 4 hours a night; it never bothered me. So, even though I worked a lot, I still had plenty of free time at home. I also took 2 to 3 long, international vacations during the year and at Christmas shutdown.
Now retired, I still stay up till midnight and get up at 4 or 5 am. My wife snoozes a... long... time. Great for me and the cat. 😇
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