I originally posted this question but in the wrong section, so a member wrote to me and suggested that I enter my post in this section, as she also mentioned that sometimes actual "Ostomy Nurses" reply as well. Anyway, read below please:
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Hi all,
I had my ileostomy put in right a day or so before 1/1/09 and well, was hospitalized nearly 2 months because they goofed initially by not doing an open surgery, as planned, as I had impacted stool (top to bottom) and well, when I awoke...although in severe pain (even w/IV Fentanyl pump), the worst pain, was the pain I went in for, which was severe constipation (hadn't gone for nearly 1 month). Severe Global Colonic Inertia...and well, for whatever the reason he didn't do the open (which was to allow him to squeeze out the impactions, or use gastrografin or even resect the colon at its worst spots), he ended just doing a "laparoscopic surgery"...perhaps it was the deception of my weight for over the previous year, eating without making was so painful I lost 120 lbs...down to 114 lbs...at 6'.
Anyway, he kept me there all that time and 5 weeks were spent using every trick in the book to disimpact me (using the same old methods, never worked at prior hospitalization...but now had ileostomy...so I couldn't drink GOLYTLE, it had to be injected in stoma...somehow they routed it to large intestine, and a variety of techniques....out of over 10 attempts...only one time did I get anything dark come out, and it certainly wasn't a month's worth...
Anyway, he changed his story (surgeon) from top to bottom impaction to "tablespoon" as they had to discharge me, although I appealed I lost.
Since I've been home, the pain of "needing to make"...is awful...and the cramps (worse than before). True, I can eat...and whatever I add, can be eliminated w/ileostomy, but, I have the pain I had prior to surgery and even worse.
Meanwhile I have colon just hanging around inside me...w/no blood supply...it's probably filled w/toxic stool...I'm getting rashes and feeling weak...
Here's my question: Well it's really two. Has the above ever happened to anybody on ostomates? Or heard of such a thing...BTW, my surgeon won't talk w/me...said, "go to ER if you're in pain".
I have put on about 12 lbs. since I've been back (maybe 6 weeks)...and sometimes I even overeat...cause well, when the pain eases, I can't get enough of food (I was so food deprived for so long)...and all the weight is going INTO MY BELLY. So, I look like this Pole/Skinny tall man, w/this growing pregnant-like appearance (like 3rd month)...but maybe more so, like the beginning of a beer belly? And it looks deformed. I try to be active more than before I had surgery...where I was in bed 24/7...but, still, all the weight is just filling my belly, which is where the BAG is, so even though I'm super skinny still, my waist size w/the floating flange/bag...probably is like a 35" waist...instead...
So I also was curious if others had this issue...that lost a lot of weight and then when they started to put it back on, it wasn't put back on evenly distributed but ALL in the lower belly?
None of my clothing fit...and what fit even 6 weeks ago, are too tight now, and my previous life, all those clothes would just fall right off of me....
Of course, my main concern is, is this within the realm of "normal newbie ileostomy issues/problems" or am I fooling myself and need to get him (surgeon) or another to fix whatever the problem is?
Thank you all, Jay
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Hi all,
I had my ileostomy put in right a day or so before 1/1/09 and well, was hospitalized nearly 2 months because they goofed initially by not doing an open surgery, as planned, as I had impacted stool (top to bottom) and well, when I awoke...although in severe pain (even w/IV Fentanyl pump), the worst pain, was the pain I went in for, which was severe constipation (hadn't gone for nearly 1 month). Severe Global Colonic Inertia...and well, for whatever the reason he didn't do the open (which was to allow him to squeeze out the impactions, or use gastrografin or even resect the colon at its worst spots), he ended just doing a "laparoscopic surgery"...perhaps it was the deception of my weight for over the previous year, eating without making was so painful I lost 120 lbs...down to 114 lbs...at 6'.
Anyway, he kept me there all that time and 5 weeks were spent using every trick in the book to disimpact me (using the same old methods, never worked at prior hospitalization...but now had ileostomy...so I couldn't drink GOLYTLE, it had to be injected in stoma...somehow they routed it to large intestine, and a variety of techniques....out of over 10 attempts...only one time did I get anything dark come out, and it certainly wasn't a month's worth...
Anyway, he changed his story (surgeon) from top to bottom impaction to "tablespoon" as they had to discharge me, although I appealed I lost.
Since I've been home, the pain of "needing to make"...is awful...and the cramps (worse than before). True, I can eat...and whatever I add, can be eliminated w/ileostomy, but, I have the pain I had prior to surgery and even worse.
Meanwhile I have colon just hanging around inside me...w/no blood supply...it's probably filled w/toxic stool...I'm getting rashes and feeling weak...
Here's my question: Well it's really two. Has the above ever happened to anybody on ostomates? Or heard of such a thing...BTW, my surgeon won't talk w/me...said, "go to ER if you're in pain".
I have put on about 12 lbs. since I've been back (maybe 6 weeks)...and sometimes I even overeat...cause well, when the pain eases, I can't get enough of food (I was so food deprived for so long)...and all the weight is going INTO MY BELLY. So, I look like this Pole/Skinny tall man, w/this growing pregnant-like appearance (like 3rd month)...but maybe more so, like the beginning of a beer belly? And it looks deformed. I try to be active more than before I had surgery...where I was in bed 24/7...but, still, all the weight is just filling my belly, which is where the BAG is, so even though I'm super skinny still, my waist size w/the floating flange/bag...probably is like a 35" waist...instead...
So I also was curious if others had this issue...that lost a lot of weight and then when they started to put it back on, it wasn't put back on evenly distributed but ALL in the lower belly?
None of my clothing fit...and what fit even 6 weeks ago, are too tight now, and my previous life, all those clothes would just fall right off of me....
Of course, my main concern is, is this within the realm of "normal newbie ileostomy issues/problems" or am I fooling myself and need to get him (surgeon) or another to fix whatever the problem is?
Thank you all, Jay