I READ ON WIKIPEDIA that the first proctocolectomy was performed in 1978. I guess that I must have been an early, unreported, experimental patient, since mine was in 1964. As they say, you can’t believe everything you read. Yet, as long ago as that was, my heart still goes out to those newbies who come onto this site and express their dismay at what has happened to them. I well remember the pain and anguish that I experienced. The term PTSD wasn’t so common back then; it came out of the Vietnam War a few years later. It was my surgery, in fact, that kept me out of that war. Today it is plain to me, as I meet all the incredible people on this site, that overcoming this trauma is obviously possible. “There are no hopeless situations,” wrote Clare Boothe Luce, “only people who have grown hopeless about them.” So to you newbies I say, you can do it too. As any kid knows, holes are made to climb out of.
Agree, but also realize sometimes those holes can be quite slippery, maybe more so for some than others. Trying to “get a grip” may take time and support... jb
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