Reply to w30bob
Ditto
I am no medic - but a number of years with a colectomy [ileostomy] has ensured that one becomes 'informed'... so I feel that Bob's observations should be well noted.
[And to iterate, your situation would seem to me not to be the 'wait' situation whereby other intervention delay may be prudent or assessable differently.
However, please note I am no medic [and thus my thoughts are but my personal thoughts, from a lay patient] - notwithstanding this, I urge your wisdom to - at the very least - seek a second professional opinion from a clinician surgeon whose profile is pertinent.
An independent surgeon who specializes in abdominal wall reconstruction, in my humble opinion, may serve you well... and may also allow one to assess the 'consensus' - but may also offer an alternative perspective to consider - and if the surgeon is open, he/she will explain the methodologies/techniques in detail. Don't be afraid to ask questions [no matter how silly one may fear our own thoughts to be - you know how your body feels inside and as such - [for me at least] - peace of mind comes with true understanding... no side step from full transparency.
Please come back to the forum in the interim and share prior to the elected procedure you elect to 'run with'... We are batting for you.
Good luck - and don't leave your research too late - fate favours those who are prepared! [even in an emergency!]
Best Wishes
Jayne.