After 6 surgeries, 5 intestinal, wearing a couple of ostomies for a year all due to a botched first surgery. I put together a 5-page synopsis of the events.
To include detailed instructions I gave to the surgeon doing the operations. I told the surgeon and had him sign a description of what was to be done. If anything showed up that was unexpected, that part of the procedure was to be halted and I was to be sewn back together, time given to regain my thinking on how I wanted to proceed. I made it clear to the surgeon I was paying him for his operational skills, not his decision-making. Altering decisions were to be left up to me. If that meant a second or third operation, that was my choosing and my desire. I also wanted the surgeon to perform two tests which he declined to do, saying they were not needed. One was a barium enema to check for megacolon. The other, a simple lower colonoscopy. Although my colon was disease-free in the traditional sense. I told the surgeon I wanted no surprises. The only test he would do is called a marker test. My problem was I couldn't find any colorectal surgeons that had experience with idiopathic constipation. This includes the VA system and the University of Washington Hospital, which is world-renowned.
I sent the information to 6 different attorneys that specialized in medical litigation.
I also talked to each attorney after they had received the information.
All 6 came to the same conclusion, some for different reasons, but the same ending.
All 6 agreed the surgeon had "botched" the operation, their word not mine. However, they went on to say I would have to prove negligence or malpractice. They said it would be almost impossible to prove negligence or malpractice because of the latitude the surgeon has when the patient is on the table. Although the surgeon agreed to certain conditions and did not meet those conditions. All he has to say is what he did was for the benefit of keeping the patient alive. Another big problem is the surgeons seem to circle the wagons in defense of each other.
So I have to live with it.
What pisses me off is I went into this like I do everything I do. Eyes wide open and lots of research. Including several testimonials from other patients this surgeon had and talking to a couple of different head nurses at the hospital where he operates out of.
Some on this thread have unwisely said I can't spell which is very true. However, my lack of spelling has not kept me from making millions. It may be noted Henry Ford could not spell; when confronted with this in court, he simply said I can hire it done! My spell check does not work on this thread. I simply don't give a damn.
Rick.....