Dealing with Exhaustion after Cancer Treatment

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judyj
Jan 15, 2014 1:04 am
Hi all, I had colon cancer just over a year ago, had chemo, radiation, surgery, a blockage, and more chemo. I'm now on the mend. I do wear a bag and have adapted well to that. But my question is, is anyone else so bone-weary tired? I am a 62-year-old female and feel so much older. Ever since the surgery and chemo, I am so tired all the time. I have talked to my doctors and they tell me it will take time. But I have never been so tired before. Does anyone else have this? Most of the time I hear of people getting back to work and are starting to do all the things they used to do. But not me.
Thanks for any response.
Judy
Ewesful
Jan 15, 2014 1:11 am

I bet you are short on vitamin levels -- my GP set up a round of blood tests and a slew came back fine but there were a few that were way off the scale and it made so much sense to my feeling of exhaustion. Once fixed, I have been much better - be sure they check iron/Vit B's and D -- then check every 3 months -- I switched to Centrum Energy for the iron -- do not try straight iron -- and make sure the pills are quick dissolve. I also have FAP and this is a critical situation for me. I am a 68-year-old female and can tell you it makes a huge difference in energy! That in turn affects attitude and general health -- good luck. I was shocked at how quickly this could be remedied!

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jerseyrobert
Jan 15, 2014 3:09 am
Hi Judy, I'm glad you made it through all that. I can have 8 hours of sleep and by noon or 1 o'clock, I'm ready to pass out. My head gets so tired. I think the problem may be that we both had major surgery and that really takes a toll on a person. And possibly a little depression about the bag and all. I'm handling it very well too but still wish I had my old life back. But I know I'm lucky to be here.

Take care, Bobby
djcwiley
Jan 15, 2014 7:19 am
Judy,

I share the same feeling and take "Spirulina". It's a source of high-quality blue-green algae, high in protein, low-fat source of numerous vitamins, minerals, essential fatty acids, and Vitamin-B12. I learned of the product from a documentary on stress.

Also, I believe that "acceptance" is a difficult process and we all have these thoughts, "when am I going to feel like myself again?". It's been 7 years for me and I'm still saying it to myself.

Improving the quality of life is a universal goal and we all need to continue to share resources and build a strong sense of belonging.

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Bill
Jan 15, 2014 12:07 pm
Hello Judy.

  Good advice from the people commenting on you post. I had always been tired (on and off) all my life and found it difficult to explain to the doctor so that he could understand that I had  different types of tiredness. He sent me for some sleep tests and found I had sleep apnoea and was waking up more than 30-40 times an hour!!--I now use a CPAP machine at nights and that sorted that out nicely.  Another type of tiredness came on suddenly and all mt energy drained at once so that I couldn't atand up -- eventaully I found out that I had low blood pressure and that was probably the cause of that. Another type of tiredness was brought on from overwork so I felt reasonable about that because everyone who works has that at some time or other.   My wife insisted that I start taking the sort of vitamins and supplements that other people have already mentioned and since then I have only really been affected by the bloods pressure thing every so often. The rest of my waking life is back  to some sort of normality. I believe that if you know what is wrong, then it's half the battle, as you can either do something about it or learn to live with it.  I hope you find your own solutions soon as tiredness can be most debilitating. (NB: I have posted some verses on tiredness in the past so if you are interested I think you could find them on my profile )

Best wishes  Bill
 

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dsmithsc91
Jan 15, 2014 6:48 pm

If you have blood work done, you may want to ask them to measure your ferritin levels to make sure you are not anemic.

Past Member
Jan 15, 2014 7:53 pm
Hi Judy

I get really exhausted too... you're definitely not alone in that.

I agree with Jerseyrobert that you've been through a horrible ordeal, and it really does take its toll on anyone who's been there.

It probably is a matter of time, though I know that isn't much help.
Xerxes
Jan 16, 2014 11:39 pm

Judy,

It might be unrelated, but have you had your thyroid gland and function checked?

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Past Member
Jan 19, 2014 2:35 pm

Hi, I have had a colostomy for over 10 years now and I would recommend irrigation as the utmost important thing you can learn to do right away. I learned after 6 months from my operation to irrigate and I am doing great. Forget fatigue, this will help.

nurse07
Jan 22, 2014 1:22 am
Hi Judy, I had rectal cancer 12 years ago. I was 42 and had chemo, radiation, and an ileostomy. I was exhausted, so tired I couldn't function. As time went on, I did start to feel better. I had a reversal 1 year later. Fast forward to now, I had a colostomy in August because I had so many problems from the radiation. I had no muscle control as time went on, and the only solution was a colostomy. I am so glad I did it and feel great. You will feel better too, just rest when you have to. Your body has to adjust to everything.