Just wanted to let you folks know—I am 3 months out of ileostomy—told no one. Did not think I would ever meet a "normal" guy. Decided to join a dating site—met the nicest guy. After only a short while, we are a couple and I told him. He immediately accepted me. We have not slept together yet, but at least he knows. He is a widower; maybe that is the most understanding kind—so don't be afraid, just go for it.