Hi, sorry to take so long answering. I have been very unwell in the hospital for weeks, but I'm not saying that for sympathy (I can hear all the groans! LOL). I was in for over a month and am on a break for two weeks, then back in for further surgery on my stoma. They have to relocate it and remove more of the ileum. I will be in for about a month as they have booked me into intensive care to be in an induced coma for approximately a week. Then I go to the ward for rest and recovery and some rehab before I go home.
Just wanted to say thank you to all the lovely people out there who have been a friendly ear, shared a joke, or opened their hearts to me. A sincere thank you.
One last word on the skin problem and bags, etc.
I changed back to Hollister two-piece. I alternate between one-piece bags one month and drainable the next, which is convenient for going out. The one-piece midi opaque sit nicely under any clothes and don't suddenly make an inconvenient appearance.
I have been using some extra products which some people may find useful. I buy Hollister stoma skin wash. It is color-free, pH neutral, and has no moisturizer, so no problems with adhesion, and it calms the skin. (It isn't designed to lather). I also buy Cavillon spray, which I use after I have washed and dried the skin, then spray the whole area that is the stoma and the surrounding abdominal skin with the Cavillon spray, and it works. The wipes are good for the stoma itself, but the spray is perfect for under the wafer. Lastly, Hollister also makes a medical adhesive spray. The first thing I do is cut the wafer, remove the backing, place it on some ceran or clear plastic wrap (anything really that won't stick), and turn it adhesive side up. Spray sparingly but making sure the whole surface is covered (I use my fingers to evenly distribute it, but then you need adhesive remover immediately to clean your fingers or you will stick to everything, trust me I've done it!!). Wait five minutes and then apply it to the skin. It works perfectly and remains in place for 3-5 days. You can leave it longer, but if you have sensitive skin, I wouldn't recommend it.
Thanks to one and all. I hope to be back online asap. Lorraine