Hello olderone.
Thanks for sharing your (very familiar) story.
As you mention you have a colostomy, I would urge you to look into the possibility of irrigation as a technique to control your output.
Irrigation is not for everyone, but those who are successful with it usually testify that all the output is expelled at once and then there is none (or a minimal amount) for some time.
I irrigate in the early evening and, for years, I had no output at all during the daytime. Some people have reported that they can go for 2-3 days after irrigation without output, but when I experimented with leaving it, I found that I could only achieve a day and half, which was of no use to me, so I reverted to irrigating every evening.
There are a few videos on YouTube graphically explaining the procedure if you are interested. Also, you would need to discuss it with a stoma nurse or your medic, as there are some people who are not suitable for one reason or another.
I wish you well in your efforts to get this under control.
Best wishes
Bill
PS: I just noticed I had an alert from a post last year on irrigation and my response to that seemed a bit more comprehensive, so I'll cut and paste it here for you.
Hello Patrick.
I cannot understand why a doctor in the NHS would be concerned about the expense involved with irrigation. It perhaps indicates a degree of ignorance rather than knowledge.
The basic equipment should not be 'expensive', but if you need a pump of some sort rather than gravity feed for the water, then it can cost a bit. However, I just use a garden spray pump which is quite cheap and has worked for me for years.
All equipment should be available on prescription via the NHS.
The principle is that we simply put water into the stoma to flush out any waste. The output is usually finished within an hour and then we have no output for times ranging from a day to 2-3 days. The procedure is a simple one and well worth trying.
I am sure there will be many people on here (including me) who will be willing to assist in any way we can. but your first port of call might be to read the past posts on the subject which are in the 'collections' section.
Best wishes
Bill
"Not everyone is suitable for irrigation, which is why a discussion with stoma nurses or doctors is often a requirement prior to trying it. However, if you are suitable there are many benefits and if anyone sounds discouraging, then I would be sceptical about their knowledge on the subject. Quite often a stoma nurse will give instructions and practical support in trying it for the first time but there are several you tube videos that show quite clearly what is involved.