Well put Beach Boy !
you nailed it .. someone explain it as looking at a toy doll' s rear end.
butt i think she was talking in " layman's terms" what is it? why the term?
g.i.joe..ken and barbie. quite funny in hindsight. - pun intended.
I would like to address the question of stump removal as squirrels in the Attic asked a couple of specific questions so this goes to squirrels ..
I read your profile.
Having Henry for 40 years is quite an achievement!! I'm very much surprised by all the people on this forum with issues with inflammatory bowel disease, Crohn's, colitis , cancer how much we differ in our experience with the butt.. that doesn't work or more specifically a rectum detached and whether or not it's worth keeping or get it working again. .
You mentioned the dermatologist is concerned because of the irritation in the front area of your body thinking that the stump is causing this??? he needs some proof - evidence to back that up!! not just the idea to remove the butt and see what happens!!!! . yur best approach is seeing an ostomy nurse who has more experience than yur derm. or gyno.
i have a derm that helped. so keep him. but experience is needed here. Especially if you chose a surgeon. Research a good one..
how often do u think the derm sees patients like you as compared to an ostomy nurse? ask your g.i. about finding one.
You are very lucky to just have these Phantom bowel movements with out discharge? i assume?? . a lot of us have leakage -a mucus or bloody discharge and I can speak first hand my own experience that I only after 6 years of having an ileostomy that the discharge could not be controlled with meds.
then you question those meds long term- side effects.
october 9, 2023 i had the ken butt done. i asked people here months ago the same question abt stump removal and recovery. the same people replying to you, also replied to me back then. was and am grateful to them. thanks folks.
i am 2 weeks post op.
first hand experience is discomfort. surprised not much pain. yur cheeks are completely swollen to a point where it feels u have 3. ice cold packs helped alot..
it does help " sit on it".
there are restrictions too which seem common sense. and u gotta walk.
hospital stay 3- 5 days. i was there 7.
and the type of surgery? lap robotic or traditional.
we went in thinking robotic. but unfortunately he tried and failed. ended up cutting into belly area. traditional. now this too is just uncomfortable 2 weeks out.
but they give u nerve blocker while under anesthesia. when that wears off grab the oxycodone .!! holy hell!
the question u need to answer is this frontal irritation? after 40 years of Henry, and a non function rectum, what's the source of it? .
my reason having the kenn butt surgery was to stop the embarrassing leakage and reduce the prospect of cancer there. and sincerely we are hoping the rectum was the source of inflammation proven by sig scopes , causing painful arthritis.
also as we found out within six yrs of a idling stump, chrons developed.
post op note for the kenn butt guys:
any of u have trouble peeing after that garden hose sized cath got removed?
A Recovering Warrior Indeed.