Hello,
What type of ostomy do you have? Each type of ostomy has its own unique challenges.
Ileostomy typically has a more liquid type output that is acidic. Leaks are common and peristomal skin is easily damaged by the stomach acid.
Colostomy has a thicker output with little acid content. This is what I have. I don't have many leaks and output barely affects my skin.
Urostomy is for diversion of urine away from the bladder through a stoma and into a bag or holding device.
Many factors affect having a stoma. For example: underlying disease, how much colon remains, prior radiation treatment, medications, and a person's mobility and dexterity.
What type of wafer/bag system do you have? Non-drainable pouch or drainable? Do you use a barrier ring?
Adhesion tips: When bathing, use soap containing no fragrance or lotions. Those chemicals will interfere with your wafer sticking. I use Cetaphil soap.
Use a blow dryer set on low to preheat the wafer (about 30 seconds is good) before you apply it to your skin.
Don't use a barrier film product. Only use barrier film (spray or wipe) when peristomal skin (skin around your stoma) is irritated. There is a technique called "crusting" used to treat damaged, irritated peristomal skin. Works like this: Using stoma powder, sprinkle powder on the damaged skin area. Gently wipe off excess. Use a barrier wipe to dab remaining stoma powder until moist. Let dry, repeat a couple more times. Then install wafer/bag. Once skin heals, stop using barrier film.
Get a support belt. After I put on a new wafer/bag, I put on a support belt that holds the bag securely to my body. I wear it for an hour or so. Helps wafer adhesive stick to skin. Your ostomy supply provider should have belts available. I use a Nu-Hope Corporation peristomal hernia support belt.
Don't change the wafer too much. This will damage peristomal skin. I used to change the wafer twice a week. But over time, I discovered I can do it every 7 days. I use a 2-piece Hollister system and change "bag only" every 2 to 3 days. Bags just snap on and off easily.
I'm a year post-op. It takes time to discover what does, and does not, work for you. All medical supply companies and device manufacturers have stoma nurses you can consult with over the phone. Manufacturers offer free samples of their products you can try. Hospitals have stoma nurses too. Major troubles... speak with a doctor right away.
Good luck