Dock shock

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Bill
Sep 19, 2024 6:46 am

DOCK SHOCK.

I can recall that I was shocked
when I first had my colon docked
and saw it on the front of me
in the form of an ostomy.

That shock was then compounded by
the thought that I might have to try
to manage how output came out 
as that’s what stomas are about.

It was good the nurse was there
to show me rudiments of care
and act as my mentor and guide
in terms of this thing on my side.

Her calm and logical approach
was perfect for a stoma coach
who showed me what I had to do
with the stoma and the pooh. 

I learned so much in that first week,
after the shock of my first peek
at that stoma, red and raw
like something never seen before.

But the best thing that I learned
was when my confidence returned
then, the initial shock was gone 
and I could simply carry on.

My life had changed in this respect,
for I now knew what to expect
so, now I knew how I could cope
and fill my mind with trust and hope.

For I was now no longer shocked
about my colon being docked
and I could get on with my life 
free from all that previous strife. 

                                                B.Withers 2024

Justbreathe
Sep 19, 2024 2:43 pm

Bill -

Your explanation is no farce

and hits some points about my arse

I have felt both shock and scorn

and my bum I miss and mourn

But with each and every dawn

things improve and I move on

MeetanOstomate has helped me heal

and much improved how I currently feel

Key factors being family, music, and abundant humor

blurs those memories of that dreadful tumor!

The recall of trauma felt way back then

has mostly transformed to a life of zen

jb

 

 

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TerryLT
Sep 19, 2024 8:55 pm

You guys are both amazing!

Terry

Justbreathe
Sep 20, 2024 10:58 am
Reply to TerryLT

Awww, thanks for the compliment; you are too kind…since Jr. High School (and that was a few years back, 😂) I have loved to jot down a rhyme.
Bill's ability to capture life in his poetry, for me, is beyond compare or comprehension. jb