Seeking Durable Ostomy Bag Options for Elderly Mother

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lilymo48
Oct 12, 2024 10:04 pm

I found this forum while researching how to help my elderly mother adapt to a new bag, when the Karaya 5 was discontinued. I became my mother's caregiver 2 years ago and change the bag for her. At 95 she is still able to empty the bag, but the new material, which is thinner plastic, is very upsetting to her. She has never accepted change well now or in the past. She also still wants some independence and refuses to let me help her with the emptying of the bag. She feels, that due to the thinner material, she is not able to empty it completely and has to rinse it out multiple times. Does anyone know of a slightly heavier plastic ostomy bag still available to use? Unfortunately, she is a creature of habit and is having several meltdowns not being able to adjust to the new thinner material. She also uses the clamp closure due to her arthritic hands. Thank you!

warrior
Oct 12, 2024 10:23 pm

95 yrs old? That's awesome.

Good luck with helping change her ways and finding a decent appliance.

It's not a bag change. It's the entire set-up.

Each brand has their own thing.

I never heard of that brand you mentioned, but you can contact each manufacturer for free samples to determine what she likes. A stoma nurse should be able to help her and you, but it's the nurse's job to provide that info.

You will need to know her stoma size before ordering anything. Then take it from there. And is it an ileo or colostomy?

It will take time and patience for sure. Hang in there helping your mom. Once an appliance is to her liking, you are both on easy street. And it won't cost you but a phone call into the manufacturer.

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lilymo48
Oct 12, 2024 10:42 pm
Reply to warrior

Thank you! Yes it's finding the middle ground in her adapting. We have spoken with Home Health and I have called multiple medical supply companies with no luck in finding a slightly heavier plastic for her. Keeping fingers crossed. 

Beth22
Oct 12, 2024 11:09 pm

Hi there,

So your best bet is to call each manufacturer and ask for samples. You won't get many samples through the distribution companies. Also, it might be tough to find them these days, as it seems these companies are changing the quality of the product. I know the brand I use; I have used them for 3 years, and in the past year, I have noticed a decline in the thickness of the plastic. The best bet, like I said above, is to call manufacturers, get samples, and try to find one she likes.

AlexT
Oct 13, 2024 1:02 am

At 95 years old, she’s adapted to all kinds of changes throughout the years in all aspects of her life. Order samples, explain to her that the old bags aren’t made anymore and she can pick which one she likes best so it’s her decision and not someone telling her what to use. 

 

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ron in mich
Oct 13, 2024 12:44 pm

Hi Lilymo, welcome to the site. What a good daughter you are; I hope my girls would be so helpful.

aTraveler
Oct 15, 2024 3:24 am

Try sample appliances from Marlen:

https://www.marlenmfg.com/

 

lilymo48
Oct 15, 2024 4:02 am
Reply to aTraveler

Thank you - I just ordered some more samples. Very very helpful.

Hisbiscus
Oct 17, 2024 2:07 am

I think the Coloplast Mio, but ask for it without the filter, and the Convatec ActiveLife have about the thickest plastic out there. However, the ActiveLife has a smaller opening and a clip, whereas the Coloplast Mio has Velcro and a larger opening. You can call the companies for samples.