Hello fellow ileostomates! Just wondering if there's anybody out there who has the same problem I do...
I had a loop ileostomy performed on 11/2014 due to a small bowel obstruction that I still have and will be operated on 05/2015. Initially, my stoma looked quite "normal," but day after day, it started retracting, and now it's quite tiny, half in, half out, very, very restless, and with a "personality" of its own! 😄 My doctor says that it's been retracting because I have a little adhesion that tends to pull it back and that we'll take care of that in May when he removes the obstruction.
So, handling my little, crazy stoma is a HUGE challenge for me! Due to the fact that it's not completely round and not completely above my tummy, the opening looks downwards, and poop very often goes under my wafer. I've never had an "accident," thank God, but I now have a round circle of very irritated peristomal skin. My wafers last two to three days at the max if I'm very, very lucky! And it's always so painful in that zone; I wish I could ventilate it and let it dry out a little, but that's impossible with my stoma's "timing." 😥
I've tried several products and brands out there, but the main problem is that all of them tend to swell and "turtleneck" right over my stoma, which is very flat. They must be great for normal stomas but unfortunately not for mine! So, I need to find a convex wafer and protective barrier (rings, sheets, etc.) that don't swell. I'm currently using the 2-piece Hollister New Image convex wafer and drainable pouch with a filter, but the wafer doesn't stay as it is when I first put it on. The second day it gets fat and gummy around the opening that surrounds my stoma and loses its adhesion. Other products I'm using are the Stomahesive paste, Stomahesive powder, and Cavilon protective barrier spray, plus the Hollister belt. Today I ordered a New Hope/New Comfort ostomy belt hoping that it'll provide a little more pressure on my tummy and make my stoma pop out a little more.
I'd really appreciate all the advice you can provide me, or product info you can share with me. And I thank you all for taking the time to read my message!
All the best to you all!
Anita 🌻