I am 5 days out of surgery for an incisional hernia following my ostomy reversal. Mine was done laparoscopically with robotics, whatever that means. I'm not familiar with your surgical procedure.
I still have a lot of pain, but I only have 3 small incisions that are glued and don't require dressing. I was able to shower in 36 hours.
The pain feels more like my C-sections than the colostomy.
What I noticed in discussions with my doctor was full sympathy and a guarantee that I'd get fixed asap. In reality, I'm being treated as if it's "just a hernia." It took a month to get on the surgery schedule. I, too, was given no care instructions or prep instructions either. The office didn't return my calls. I received mail the day of surgery telling me SOP (nothing by mouth) after midnight, but I had a prescription for Golytely at Walmart, but they were out of stock. Omg, I was going crazy and being told, "don't get excited."
My check-in time for surgery was changed 4 times, and once was scheduled at her office! Of course, that was on Friday night when no one was in the office for the weekend.
Sorry, but I forgot all this. My go was who ordered the CT scan, and he prompted me to reach the surgeon right away, but the appointment desk wouldn't make an appointment until the doctor reviewed the report. I didn't know it, but they had sent the report the same day they told me. When I got ahold of the office, some Barbie girl said she had the report, but the doctor said it was fine, but if I really needed to, I could make an appointment. So another 10 days passed, and when I got to the doctor, after talking to the front desk, talking to the nurse getting vitals, the doctor had no idea why I was there and further had to track down the report because it wasn't in my file!
Like some of you, I had no clue how hernias work or happen, so I sat around trying to figure it out and researching online. The folks I knew who'd had surgeries had more than one surgery. Some had current hernias they had not seen a doctor about. Mine hurt! And it was just a bump. Then I carried some BLANKETS (!) down the hall, and I felt something. I laid down, I thought to pass some gas, but right under the skin near my stoma scar, I felt part of my bowel poking out and folded in half, and it was creepy. Stupid me, I'd heard of people pushing it back in, and I probably almost killed myself trying it.
Mom so afraid of getting another bag that I got a ride to the ER right away! By the time I saw a triage nurse, he didn't even sit up to talk to me. He told me pain did not mean emergency surgery. He said when it hurts more than anything I ever felt to come back. When I pressed him, he said as bad as having a heart attack feels. Omfg, I've never had a heart attack, so I finally got him to add vomiting as a symptom.
Matter all that ranting, again I'm sorry, but it's allowed here, I'll tell you what I did, in practical terms. I didn't lift anything more than 5 lbs, and that's pretty much nothing. Not even my purse. Laundry was a problem. I quit taking aspirin so I'd be ready for surgery any time. I wore baggy pants with a drawstring, but I started wearing panty girdles, making sure I was dry enough (after shower) not to struggle pulling them up. I didn't wear anything that cinched up right at the waist except the girdle. I kept a small pillow or stuffed animal near to hold against my stomach when I coughed or sneezed and a big pillow when I stood up from sitting. I doubled my stool softeners not to make bowels fluid but real soft. Think how it had to go through that loop and back down in a less than 45-degree turn! I quit bearing down to poo or bending over to pick anything up.
Might hurt then and now to have a full bladder, and then it hurts when it's empty. By the time I had surgery, just a couple bites of food hurt, and I had trouble swallowing.
Right now, it hurts when I take a deep breath and when I yawn. At first, you have mucus to cough up from surgery, and that hurts real bad. Getting out of bed without rails is bad, and having to walk with a nurse always pisses me off.
My grandson stayed Saturday night to take care of me, but he really was killing me. He showed me those iTunes fails video, and it hurt so bad to laugh, but I couldn't help it. Just sat here hissing out a laugh with my eyes running.
I know I've written a doggone book about nothing here, but I'm leaving it as it is. This is a problem that I have, but since I talk a hundred mph, it doesn't take long at all lol
Good night now. Hope I helped some....WAIT! We get these hernias because a stitch slips on our incision, so there's a gap the intestine bulges out of. My doctor said she made certain to make my stitches solid. She also stitched some kind of mesh in there to fix the hole instead of stretching intestinal skin together. I'm hoping my body doesn't reject the foreign object. Last word, I read that hernias near an active stoma sometimes don't heal right until they close that stoma site and cut a different part of your intestine to move your stoma on the opposite side from the hernia, and STILL you might get another hernia. That scares the hell out of me!
Happy Thanksgiving! Charlotte K63