Hi all,
So I'm a youngish female, and I wanted to figure out a way to wear a two-piece bathing outfit to the beach and the pool and whatnot, but I wasn't super impressed by tankini options because they tended to show a strip of stomach in exactly the wrong place as well as not come far enough down my leg. I just wanted to share what I eventually hit on doing, because it's worked really well for me and it might not have occurred to everyone. (Or maybe it has. I'm a little out of the ostomy loop since I've been fully in remission.)
Basically, I went to a local sporting goods store and looked at athletic shorts and skorts until I found some that were quick-drying, well-fitting (up to the waist and not super tight in leg) and that didn't have a super basketball or other specific sporty look. The ones I ended up buying are basically the same material as a swimsuit and, upon testing, function just the same in water. After I found a few pairs, I just went to a store like Target and matched 'em to bikini tops. It essentially looks like I'm wearing board shorts, but I found many fewer options when I actually shopped for board shorts. I get to show skin (hey, I work out) and not worry about my ostomy being conspicuous or being hazardous to my activities.
Just thought I'd put this out there as an idea to explore for other women who are having a hard time figuring out bathing suits. Or, if you do something completely different, I'd love to hear about that!
Best,
Natalie