Hi, you are the only person I have found who, like me, has ended up with all these problems relating to a spinal injury. To cut a long story short, after many struggles because of nerve damage causing my colon, etc., to stop working properly, I had an ileostomy this January that did not go well. From the start, it was overactive with resultant sore skin leaks, hernia, and prolapse, and horrible excessive rectal discharge and discomfort. So, 10 weeks ago, the ileostomy was converted to a colostomy, and the hernia and prolapse, etc., were repaired. I also had my rectum and anus, etc., removed so that the colostomy is the end of the line now.
I had finally gotten all this attended to when last year they found various suspicious polyps adding to my already complicated problems. It seems that some of the recent rectal issues were related to similar growths. Previously, horrible constipation and having to employ digits in a way I will not go into were fobbed off for many uncomfortable years as just another thing I had to come to terms with in conjunction with my back problems. Almost like an accusation, I was blamed that my opiate painkillers were adding to my problems so that they were self-inflicted!!
Anyway, needless to say, it has not been easy. But the main reason I am replying to your post is that I am now dealing with constant pancaking and have tried every trick but with little success. I had a sensible chat with a stoma nurse this week, but it seems that I am likely to be stuck dealing with this now forever. The surgeon did think that because of my long history of constipation due to the nerve damage, going to a colostomy was going to have lots of problems. But my overactive ileostomy was, in his opinion, the greatest threat to my long-term health. I've got to say, though, that I find the colostomy much harder to live with and more offensive than the ileostomy, which could be easily emptied and dealt with, unlike the blocked gooey colostomy and the need for bag changing several times a day and bulky sticky mass protruding in the bag with everything stuck at the top.
I cover the filter, add wet tissue, oil sponge stickers, and all the other tricks, but it still happens. Laxatives make it worse as the consistency just gets stickier! When the pancaking occurs, poo backs up very uncomfortably inside, which worries me. If I have anything on over the bag, the pancaking escalates. And as I really need to have hernia support, I don't know how I am going to deal with this. I think I would have preferred to keep the ileostomy and risk dehydration from it being so overactive, but the hernia and prolapse had to be fixed. No one ever discusses colon problems related to spinal problems, so it is nice to meet someone who understands those for a change! Pancaking just seems a very common side effect of living with a colostomy, not easy to chat about with friends who aren't ostomates!