Reply to Caz67
Hi Phlebo,
Yikes! To answer your last question... no, it's not possible to have a bowel movement when your bowel is no longer connected to your digestive tract. However, you can (and will) have discharges of mucus and any remaining contents that were still in your bowel before it was disconnected. You'll still have the same physical sensation you did when you actually did have bowel movements. This will lessen as time goes on, but will never completely stop.
But let me get this straight. They removed your colon and rectum and connected your small bowel to your anus. You still had Crohn's and it progressed, and a fistula formed between your small bowel and your vagina. So they gave you an ileostomy 4 weeks ago and now you're having both a discharge out your vagina AND a discharge of stool, blood, and mucus out your anus as well? Do I have that right?
If so, let's unpack it. First up, fistulas don't heal on their own. They'll never close by themselves and have to be essentially split open and allowed to dry up (I'm simplifying). Simply disconnecting the bowel ahead of a fistula and letting it sit for some time won't fix it. As soon as you reattach the bowel, the fistula will come right back to life. Fistulas form whenever the body senses a blockage or restriction in the flow of bowel contents. It's your body's way of finding a different path of least resistance. I'm really not sure what's going on inside you right now... if you're having a discharge of bowel contents through your vagina, your fistula is alive, well, and active... or severely infected and discharging those contents. If you're having a discharge out your anus, that means part of your small bowel is still attached to your anus and is generating mucus and leftover contents. Blood in either discharge isn't a good thing. Without a CT or MRE, we can't really say what's going on inside you.
If it were me, I'd heed Caz's advice and get it checked out sooner rather than later. And I'd find out exactly what they did and what's going on right now. You can't leave it all in your doctor's hands... you need to be informed and part of the decision-making process. I know it's a lot and can be overwhelming... but if you don't do it... no one else will. I also suggest contacting a Mayo Clinic satellite office or other large hospital center near you for a second and third opinion. Sorry I can't be definitive or much of a help. Please let us know what you find out.
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