Fable-
I do understand about a lot of the posts on here....if I really let myself think about some of them, I would just cry all the time. I know I have said this before, but I am truly humbled by the sufferings of others as compared to my own situation. When this all happened to me, ileostomy wise, I hadn't had Crohn's, or UC, or cancer, or anything causing such intense/immense suffering in the digestive tract.....lupus killed my large intestine; quickly and quietly. And now I have been able to have a successful reversal. So do I think that some folks on here surmise that I haven't got a clue as to what having a bag for the rest of your life with no chance of reversal is like? Sure they do. Do I know that I have SOOOO much to be thankful for? You bet! But, what some don't realize is how much they TEACH ME....about acceptance.....about living LIFE no matter what it hands you......about taking chances and risks and just loving life for the JOURNEY instead of some predetermined "outcome!" Things I need to keep in touch with at a core level. So if I get some "chilly" receptions from time to time, so be it. (And I do/have) I'm sure my postings will lessen in the next few weeks, from a recovery standpoint, as I move more towards my "new normal" and there is really nothing new or informational to report.....but I will continue to hang around and keep track of some of these wonderful folks. Including you.
You gave me quite a scare when you had that partial blockage and had to go in for round #2, surgery wise. I could tell how frustrated you were becoming and how the "no answer" thing was scaring you so I was SO thankful when they were able to fix the problem and let you go home, FINALLY! Even more grateful that you are home now and doing well.
On the Mexican food thing.....yeah, it's more "Tex Mex" here than anything else. The Dallas area does have a few authentic little, cozy places.....but we are spoiled to the "milder" side of Mexican food for the most part. My daughter's first hubby was from NM, and he would always laugh at us when we said we were going out for "Mexican." There was this one NM dish that he introduced to me called "Christmas".......an egg dish with both red and green peppers. He said it was a local NM favorite. I love it!
The Metamucil is part of a "cocktail" we are trying out to try and slow down the BM's. Lomotil, Tincture of Opium, and Metamucil. I would have thought Metamucil would keep me running, but it actually helps bulk it up a little bit. With me having no large intestine, there is no real "stopping place" for the food....it slides down the stomach into the small intestine and then makes a real BANG, with its entrance, if you know what I mean. They tell me that eventually the rectum will learn to hold more, and that the small intestine will learn to hold more water....thus slowing things down a little bit naturally. We'll see about that....it can take a year or more for the body to re-train.
And yes, I still have butt burn....but the Metamucil helps with that, too. I think it absorbs some of the stomach acid. Weird, eh?
Take good care of yourself, and let others close to you help take care of you, too!
Blessings!
Darla