Love Found - My Success Story as an OstoMate!

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drfields24
Oct 25, 2017 2:56 am

Hello everyone!!!

It has been almost a year since joining this site. I just wanted to share. I know a lot of people get concerned about meeting someone on here. I'm not a lifer membership and I had someone initiate to take me out. I've been divorced since 2009. He lives in Chicago. I ignored the first time thinking he was joking. I live in Milwaukee. So a month later he sent me a message through this site saying he wanted to meet me. That was in April this year. I must say it was the best thing that could happen to me. We talk almost every day. We have so much in common. He comes up all the time to spend the day or weekend together. It really does make a difference when someone has an ostomy like you. Such understanding and we always have something to talk about. I want to share because sometimes people think it's hard to meet someone or they say this site doesn't work. I'm a testimony that this site does work. We are talking marriage this time next year. I will keep you posted.

Lynn

Hi drfields24,

It's fantastic to hear your story! I'm sure many people here will be inspired by your experience. This community is full of supportive folks who understand what it's like to navigate life with an ostomy.

Your journey is truly heartwarming. Meeting someone who understands your experiences and shares common ground is so important. It sounds like you and your partner have built a wonderful connection, and it's great to hear that this site played a role in bringing you together. Your story is a beacon of hope for others who might be hesitant about finding love or companionship here.

Congratulations on your success and the exciting future plans you have! Being part of this community means having access to a wealth of support, information, and some really amazing people. Keep us updated on your journey!

Angelicamarie
Oct 25, 2017 4:16 am

I'm happy for you, congratulations. Wish you the best of luck!!! Angelica Marie

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Bill
Oct 25, 2017 5:04 am

Hello drfields24. Thank you for sharing this and congratulations. It is so uplifting to hear stories like this where things work out for people and I wish you the best for your future together.

Bill

sherileo
Oct 26, 2017 8:03 pm

What a great story, thanks for sharing your positivity! 3

Xerxes
Oct 30, 2017 10:43 pm

Nice, heartwarming story. Good luck!

Merc

 

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petunia
Oct 31, 2017 12:34 am

Good for you. Very happy for you.

Past Member
Oct 31, 2017 1:25 am

Way to go, hopefully the best chance you've ever taken in life!! Wishing you the best.

katherinejohnson
Nov 14, 2017 9:13 am

Very nice, great story. Good luck.

elliemm
Dec 09, 2017 12:43 am

That's fabulous, so happy for you both!

Would like to think this is possible for all of us on this site. Best of love, luck, health and happiness to you both.

Ellie

kstyle
Dec 30, 2017 9:31 pm

It's nice to see that it happens for some people. I hope someday to be able to share a similar fabulous story.......

K

HenryM
Nov 22, 2020 12:31 pm

Okay, so I just came across this post three years after you posted it.  How about an update...  

eaills6969
Jun 10, 2022 7:03 pm

My name is Edward Aills. I have an ostomy because I got shot six times. I am scared to even talk to a girl face to face because this ostomy messes with me mentally. I know I spelled it wrong, lol... Well, anyway, I am lonely as hell and looking for a relationship. I can't figure out how to put pictures on here, but if you have Messenger, I can send you pics.

AlexT
Jun 10, 2022 7:05 pm
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