This is my first blog. ....
I was diagnosed with cervical cancer and had numerous surgeries 11 years ago that led to me having this colostomy....it was hard because I had just got married and received a higher position in my job when this happened. & within 6 months he left and I could no longer work...well, I'm blessed because I'm here and I've embraced it as an obstacle to conquer, and I have... swim, exercise, box, strip, drink, go out....graduated from training school, 5 grandkids....etc.
I feel sexier and more confident now than I ever have....my intimacy is even on point....I love who I am....I wear tight clothes and stilettos....
I thank God I'm like this because I would have never known my true potential.
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You are blessed, love, and you have a positive view of things. May God continue to bless your life. Mrs. A, I could not agree with you more! God is good!
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That's really good on you for being so strong. Enjoy life; God gave you another chance. x
Yes, ladies and gentlemen, there is life in our situation. I thank you guys for responding in a positive manner and for the uplift, but I don't mind you asking detailed questions. I want to help you jump-start your situation to a new beginning.
My Ostomy Journey: Ryan | Hollister
I have a few questions. What appliance do you wear? I have an ileostomy and I don't think I feel comfortable wearing tight things around my waist, but I would like to. And also, intimacy: how do you tell people... men about your colostomy? I love your pics. I used to dress similarly, but I feel kind of insecure. Please help.
