Never Say You Can't

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lovelessdiamond
Apr 18, 2015 2:05 am

This is my first blog. ....

I was diagnosed with cervical cancer and had numerous surgeries 11 years ago that led to me having this colostomy....it was hard because I had just got married and received a higher position in my job when this happened. & within 6 months he left and I could no longer work...well, I'm blessed because I'm here and I've embraced it as an obstacle to conquer, and I have... swim, exercise, box, strip, drink, go out....graduated from training school, 5 grandkids....etc.

I feel sexier and more confident now than I ever have....my intimacy is even on point....I love who I am....I wear tight clothes and stilettos....

I thank God I'm like this because I would have never known my true potential.

Please feel free to leave a message.

Mrs.A
Apr 18, 2015 9:22 pm
God is good all the time. Even when we don't understand what is going on or why things have happened, He does. Seems you have seen some of His Grace at work.
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Heidi92
Apr 19, 2015 11:30 pm

You are blessed, love, and you have a positive view of things. May God continue to bless your life. Mrs. A, I could not agree with you more! God is good!

grababag1
Apr 21, 2015 2:45 pm

That's really good on you for being so strong. Enjoy life; God gave you another chance. x

lovelessdiamond
Apr 21, 2015 3:08 pm

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, there is life in our situation. I thank you guys for responding in a positive manner and for the uplift, but I don't mind you asking detailed questions. I want to help you jump-start your situation to a new beginning.

 

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Justme62873
Oct 27, 2015 5:50 pm

I have a few questions. What appliance do you wear? I have an ileostomy and I don't think I feel comfortable wearing tight things around my waist, but I would like to. And also, intimacy: how do you tell people... men about your colostomy? I love your pics. I used to dress similarly, but I feel kind of insecure. Please help.

Past Member
Oct 29, 2015 12:37 am

My question is, I have a colostomy. Should men or women tell the person right away?